Is it possible that after he rejects you and you become good friends after enough time has passed he will change his mind and be interested in you? So like friends to lovers except you have been on 3 dates before (but didn't even kiss)
There's always possibility for feelings to change in the future. However if he rejected you, and the idea of dating / having a relationship with you, he clearly has his own reasons as to why he knows / believes you two wouldn't work as a couple. Or maybe he's just not into dating right now. you NEED to respect that. Especially as his friend.
Did he also consider them "Dates" ? if he informed he did not want to date you? If they are dates to you, and simply time together with his friend, to HIM, there's a HUGE issue here.
You are seeing through rose coloured glasses, as the saying goes.
So, you see time with him = dates.
His friendship = building your bond closer so he will / may fancy you in the future
While HE is seeing you as a literal friend, and made it clear you are not more than a friend.
If a relationship is what YOU are seeking, find someone who is also seeking and interested in dating. Do not wait around for this guy, when you have no signs, confirmation, or anything to imply he will be interested in you in the near future. That is such a waste of your time, when you can be out actively seeking and spending time connecting with people who ARE looking to date as well.
Respect him, respect his friendship, but if you are holding onto this hope his feelings will change and he will realize one day he actually loves you in a romantic sense, that may never happen. Please be aware it's possible, but not something that is certain. So please, focus on YOUR own wants / needs and your life.
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Yeah, but don't count on that friendship/association too much.
- https://www.youtube.com/embed/XEhixvM0wKw
that's pretty much the answer to your question. it's not "impossible" but the chances are very low. the chances of you making yourself very unhappy and even psychologically sick by staying in such a "relationship" (you wanting romance, him wanting only friends) are much more high.
so in the poll i picked A just because technically it "is" possible. but banking on that possibility is insanity.
I'd say it's more likely when the woman previously rejected the guy, because we're so accustomed to that. Of course it's possible to overcome this hurdle from the opposite end of the spectrum, but it probably won't be as easily accomplished, in my opinion.
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