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So we all know that minorities in Western culture, a lot of them have internalized hatred for their own race. Many minorities also have an inferiority complex to white people and believe by having a white partner and possibly children with them, they would be closer to the white community.

Indian girl celebrating because her kid turned out white

It comes as no surprise that part of the reason for this, is the media's influences on our dating choice. It's only logical that if we see a common group of people in magazines, films, adult movies etc as being the attractive ones that we will natural grow a preference for them. In addition, skin colour often affects the way in which people treat us on a daily basis.

For example,

"I think you nicely summarized all the moving forces quite nicely, thanks! I'd just add that it's soooo true how "whiteness" is perceived in at least India, where my dad (who's white, I'm mixed Indian) is very weirdly revered by strangers just due to his skin colour even though he's a bumbling idiot."

"Yeesssss, my friend is mixed white and Indian but she looks full white so is treated well but when she goes out with her brother (full biological brother) who looks brown, he is treated differently and badly. They have known this their entire lives"

With that said, a lot of women get warped by the media portrayal of white men and end up exclusively dating whites during their prime. A lot of the time these, girls look down on men of their own race and refuse to date them. For the women that were unsuccessful in landing a LTR with white guy, they often go back to men of their race and exclusively choose to date them. Often these women have PTSD and no longer wish to date white guys.

Asian girl who exclusively dated white men In her prime. Now has PTSD and only dates Asian.

QUESTION: Now, if you were a member of said girl's race, would you actual consider dating her now?

As we know today the online dating is a disaster, both genders hate it with a passion. I can see that dating has been that way since long time but previously the barrier of entry is less for men, the consequence of ghosting is high as well as your date and you will have mutual friends.

But still dating itself is unstable, it is like treating relationship like test driving and pick and choose. Hearts are broken left, right and centre we can see tha most of 90s and 2000s movies are based on heartbreaks, cheating, romanticising romance, etc...

No fault divorce strained it further and now most people are in live in relationship.

I think dating fucked up the world as a whole. There is no sanctity in it, only hedonistic pleasure