So I dated this girl for a while and things were amazing. We got on really well, she began opening up to be despite being emotionally unavailable, we always flirted and loved cuddling and kissing etc.
However at some point things fell apart between us and became quite toxic to where we stopped talking and ignored eachother. Eventually we talked it over and decided we wanted to try fix what we had but it's been very strange and messy. We've kissed s few times but there's been no passion to it, all flirting has stopped and we don't even touch eachother.
The other day she said like the spark has faded which is true, so much time was spent trying to reestablish rebuilding the bridges and enjoying eachothers company (we've gone to the cinema, lunch etc) that the sexual and romantic aspect has been completely ignored and so she said we just feel like friends and because it's been so long her walls are back up and she's emotionally unavailable to me again and obviously doesn't want a relationship with me if she just sees me in a friendly way.
She still wants to hang out and text and she still wants to come to my house and watch movies together so it seems like she's keeping the door slightly open, but I'm curious what are subtle ways to sexually stimulate a "friend" to make her think of me romantically again. It can't be too blatant or she'll realise and pull away, so what are things I can do in her company that will make her think of me sexually/romantically that I can build upon
