Could you date a woman that during her physical prime looked down upon men of her race?

[Anonymous]

Zoey Saldana and all her sisters who only date whites. No latinas.

So we all know that minorities in Western culture, a lot of them have internalized hatred for their own race. Many minorities also have an inferiority complex to white people and believe by having a white partner and possibly children with them, they would be closer to the white community.

Indian girl celebrating because her kid turned out white

It comes as no surprise that part of the reason for this, is the media's influences on our dating choice. It's only logical that if we see a common group of people in magazines, films, adult movies etc as being the attractive ones that we will natural grow a preference for them. In addition, skin colour often affects the way in which people treat us on a daily basis.

For example,

"I think you nicely summarized all the moving forces quite nicely, thanks! I'd just add that it's soooo true how "whiteness" is perceived in at least India, where my dad (who's white, I'm mixed Indian) is very weirdly revered by strangers just due to his skin colour even though he's a bumbling idiot."

"Yeesssss, my friend is mixed white and Indian but she looks full white so is treated well but when she goes out with her brother (full biological brother) who looks brown, he is treated differently and badly. They have known this their entire lives"

With that said, a lot of women get warped by the media portrayal of white men and end up exclusively dating whites during their prime. A lot of the time these, girls look down on men of their own race and refuse to date them. For the women that were unsuccessful in landing a LTR with white guy, they often go back to men of their race and exclusively choose to date them. Often these women have PTSD and no longer wish to date white guys.

Asian girl who exclusively dated white men In her prime. Now has PTSD and only dates Asian.

QUESTION: Now, if you were a member of said girl's race, would you actual consider dating her now?

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

F*ck no. If they're like that when they're young, their personality isn't likely going to change. This is the same type of chick who'll ride the C*ck Carousel until she's 35, then complain "where have all the good men gone?" when she's worn out, ugly, and past her baby making years. Chicks like that can get a dozen cats and let their coochie rot out, for all I care.

And just for the record, I don't care about race and never have. And someone can have a "no coons" or "no spics" or "no chinks" rule all they want when it comes to who they date. But if they want to be such assholes about it, they shouldn't be given any second chances. Full stop. Live with the decisions you made and don't try to backtrack.

[Anonymous]

I couldn't, and wouldn't date a woman who looked down on any men. That's a negative person. And I don't want that negativity in my life.

[Avicenna]

I think what you're claiming is very rare. We date people today, and they may not be the same person they were 10 or 20 years ago.

[Asker]

it's actually more common than you think. So much so that the rpc have a phrase for it called "rediscovering ones culture".

[Avicenna]

To the extent that it occurs, I don't think it's unique to non-whites. And merely dating outside your race doesn't mean you look down on males or females of your own race.

I don't know what the RPC is.

[Asker]

RPC stands for red pill community. It's not unique to non-whites. White people do it as well but it tends to occur more commonly in minorities. Especially if in their culture, faire skin is looked at in a favorable light.

[Guy13]

I see why the Indian and black lady had on issue with any man…

[Berethor]

I don't like the idea of marring a non-virgin woman anyway, and I am not a fan of women who had hit the wall anyway. Whites are the best so hard to blame them for wanting a white man, and I don't think that it only because media. If I had to choose between non-virgin women, I would rather be with a woman who had been with better men than worse men, if a woman wants a quality man it shows that she not dumb and not low class ho. I can't really think myself as black or Asian, but I can date a woman who prefer blonde men AKA a man with ultimate white looks, that I don't have, unfortunately for me.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/no_hymen,_no_diamond

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html