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Whenever we hang out ( which is 3-4 times a week), he will say that I never seem happy and never seem satisfied. He will even ask me to smile... I guess I am not happy or satisfied due to the fact that he only has time for sex. On top of that, he is the one requesting to see me 3-4 times a week and if I say I cannot, he will accuse me of going to see my "side guy"( who does not exist). Basically the reason I believe he has ghosted me is because every time we hang out, I am upset with him after.

Since he sees that I am upset, he will ask me to tell him why, I will not. I cannot even get the words out. So, I will leave upset after he pretty much begs me to tell him what is wrong before I leave. I just can't do it. When I finally am able to figure out what is wrong with me, I will text it to him but I get so embarrassed that I will just block him after I send it because I do not know how he responds ( I block him on everything not just Imessage). He has asked me what I like about him twice, I have been unable to tell him. I just sit in silence. He will say that I never seem happy... I will not say anything. He even asked me what I wanted out of the relationship and I said nothing.

I saw him last Tuesday and ended up getting upset because he had to go to the gym with his cousins and once again, I went silent. He said "If you're not happy, tell me." I said nothing for 10 minutes while he drove around to drop me off. I once again text him how I felt and blocked him on everything afterwards. I usually come back and act like nothing happened, so I had texted him asking to hang out and he agreed but I have not heard from him since.

my boyfriend dumped me a few months ago because he couldn't get along with my sister. After months of not knowing why we broke up he finally told me. My sister and my boyfriend had a hard time getting along with each other. They were cool one minute then drama would occur the next. When my boyfriend and her wouldn't be on good terms, she attempted to turn me against him. It never happened and I didn't blame him for anything. When things got worse between them, my boyfriend ghosted me including her. Later to let me know I did nothing wrong to cause it and that it was my sister fault. He had the option to not have anything to do with her but for whatever reason he felt the need to keep in contact with her.

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.