How do I handle getting out of the friend-zone with my ex?

[Anonymous]

After 2 years together, he broke up with me 5 months ago. He said he felt more like friends/roommates. I tried for a month to work things out then went no contact and worked on myself. (He tried to reach out during that time.) After a month of no contact, I called him. Since then, we have talked every day for 3 months, finally meeting up a week ago. We did have sex, but honestly within the past three months, he's been more attentive and he even introduced me to his friends.

However I told him I don't want to be just friends and I can't. I thought I could but it hurts that he may love again. He had to get to class and said he'd call back, but he didn't. He texted me good morning, but I haven't responded.

Do I go no contact again? or call him later?

[Anonymous]

this is a bit of a waste of time. anyone that actually wants to be with you wouldn't forget to call you. i just don't see this going well. having sex while not back in an official relationship is a big mistake. that makes it easier to take advantage of you. which he has already done.

[RyanK9b]

No stupid games, period. Tell him what u want, what you expect. If he then act out, forget him. He's wasting time

[boggboss]

It dont matter how many times u go nocontact that won't make him commit to u

[Anonymous]

Just time and being yourself doing what you like focusing on you. Also being with someone new helps.

My wife likes helping hurt women move on. Especially when she is pregnant which she is now. If your open to it she will talk with you and will be happy to help you move on.

She is amazing at helping and won't mind joining you in bed to make you forget about what ever your ex can do. She will do better!

[In_Trance]

you don't. you move on and leave the past behind