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I know you can't have a stategy that works everytime, but I've always believe that having a step by step plan is good, even if it fails at step 1, it gives you some structure instead of just improvising every time (I'm not saying that is bad, but I feel it's jus not for me)

I usually aproach a girl and begin with some small talk, after a while I guide the conversation toward hobbies because I draw, so I show her my drawings in my phone, also I lift my phone with my tattoed arm so they notice it, from there I grab her by the lower back while showing her my drawings and explaining the meaning of my tattoo, and from there I pull them closer little by little and getting my face closer to theirs until I feel confidence enough to go for the kiss.

I have never flirt a lot, recently I decided to give it a try, and I feel I lack a lot of confidence and knowing if this step by step I came up with is any good would help me a lot

If we're standing I usually place my hand on their lower back while talking, and slowly pull them towards me
If we're sitting I put my hand on their leg, if we are next to each other I put in her inner thigh (not way too far to get closer to other things, but just enough to make my intentions clear.

I've never been one to flirt a lot, but sometimes I do these things and then stop because I loose my confidence, if a girl let's me put my hand in this ways is it a good sign? or is it just a regular thing and they could no get my intentions clear?

Heavily inspired by this question here, would you be considered attractive enough for the modern woman? All of these traits, are the bare minimum women require, the 80th percentile. Meaning, better than four out of five men. You need at least seven out of ten of them to "pass" the "dateable" test for modern women.

1. HEIGHT: Are you at least 6'0"/183 cm tall, barefoot in the evening?

2. INCOME: Do you earn at least $90,000 USD a year?

3. CAREER: Do you have a professional, well-respected career? (Doctor, lawyer, scientist, engineer, etc.)

4. SEX APPEAL: Is your penis at least 7"/17.5 cm in length or longer?

5. PHYSIQUE: Are you in good athletic shape? As in, not overweight.

6. SOCIAL SKILLS: Do you have at least three good friends and/or one really close best friend?

7. CHARISMA: Do you consider yourself a good communicator, skilled at speaking to others, or someone who "has game" at charming women?

8. LIFESTYLE: Are you someone who completely avoids such vices as adult movies, recreational drugs, fast food, online video games, gambling, or couch-potato habits?

9. CONFIDENCE: Do you really like who you are as a person, proud of who you are, or have a high opinion of yourself?

10. QUALITY OF LIFE: Would you consider yourself to be a well-adjusted and happy person with no signs of mental illness, anxiety, or depression?

What I mean is say a guy finds you attractive. He would ask you out but he figures you're out of his league
I know some are going to say he lacks confidence. But he doesn't. He's quite confident. But that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't ask because he figures there's no point in asking.
Is this
1. a turnoff, deal breaker whatever you want to call it.
Or 2. do you put in more effort to show him you want him to ask you out.
Or 3. Do you just take the bull by the horns and ask him out.

I had a relationship with this girl years ago when I was a teenager. I liked this girl a lot but I never got chance to tell her how I felt about her before it was too late. She said she wanted to end our relationship and that we could be friends, she never gave me a reason why even though I asked. I think she mistook my affection for ‘needyness’ which must’ve killed her attraction for me or maybe it was because I was shit at sex as I was only young at the time and inexperienced, however this is only speculation as she never actually told me this. As I said many years have passed since I last spoke to her, I deleted her off all socials apart from Instagram because I simply didn’t want to see her name and what she was doing etc so do you think enough time has passed that I could message her again and maybe start a relationship again as it’s almost been 5 years. The only thing that’s stoping me is that I’m not as confident as I was 5 years ago and I don’t want that to kill my chances with her. However I’m more mature and humble now and I can still tap into that confidence it just depends on the situation, basically I’m not confident 24 7 like I was back then. Should I add her Snapchat again or find her number and message her? Im keeping my expectations low of course.