How to move on from a girl you known as a friend? is it normal to struggle with this specially if you two connected and get along very well?

[Anonymous]

She definitely helped my confidence and someone i was glad to have met last year in 2021
Now in 2022 i have to move on and try to meet new girls

[KC203]

Ok in order to answer this, do you mind clarifying was this girl just a friend or more?

[Asker]

A friend, she has a partner 😊
Me and her had a good connection and understanding
I do miss her which is a little annoying
I am planning on contacting her but if she doesn’t reply back
I would have to move on overall you know?

She brought the best out of me 😊
Good conversations and everything such as this we had

[KC203]

Well once you have a good connection with a person or become close to them it’s hard to completely cut them out of your life. I would think it’s normal. I lost a very close friend years ago due to something unforgivable and to this day I still miss that person. Did something happen for you to think she wouldn’t want to talk?

[Asker]

I use to talk to her on a app specifically, this specific girl and I stopped because the app mess up for me
I found her username account but haven’t messaged her yet
I literally spent time with her and was her social circle sometimes as she was in college 😊
No romantic feeling, genuine respect and admiration.
I hope many women and girls still like that, i do miss her a little.
Which is not like me to be but the time I had with her was special


It been a few months so I am hoping she will reply if not I will have to move on as a person
Does this make sense?

[Asker]

It’s been like many months and she might not be interested you know?

She literally was my home girl
Do you say that? 😊😂

She gave me dating advice and I was her comfort zone in a way.

I known her for a while 😊

[KC203]

Aw that sounds like a truly beautiful and special platonic friendship. Of course you miss her. I think you should reach out to her. She most likely misses you too. Yes there is the possibility that she may not wish to talk but life’s too short not take a risk. Life is hard but I believe that’s why we find special people to share both sadness and happiness to be able to get through.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend of four years

She would always ask and talk to me about my dating life
Check up on me type of way

She say she is and was proud of me

She say I have a feminine side which took me by surprise
Do you feel this is a good thing in a guy?
I do think true love exists as I spoke to her about this

Me and her are both virgins so I think this helped with connection?

I love her as a friend you could say.

Is this strange or normal for a girl around our age of 18 to 24 to encourage her guy friend as you did say i am a cool guy, she asked and encourage me to talk about sex and not be shy..
This means she gotten very comfortable and felt safe correct?
I was very shy at Start but she seemed to love my sexual freaky side 😅

She sometimes worried if she was a bad girlfriend as she didn’t have guy friends to talk to
Until she met me of course

Hoping she takes me back 😊

I do respect her and of course dating in the pandemic was always going to be difficult
I would give her a update

I can relate with you with girls who ghost and do not communicate
That is so frustrating

[KC203]

Right I got that y’all were just friends. Sounds like typical conversation. But talking about sex yeah I’d say she’s comfortable but then again she could just be a sexual person. I mean I personally am and I’m more comfortable talking about sex then my personal life and I’m a virgin myself.
Yeah I hope for you that she does. It sounds like a good friendship.

[Asker]

Yea, i don’t insult women for having a sex drive if this makes sense?

Dating in the pandemic was always going to be difficult. We have to stay safe and well.

Yea, you did ask for some background information and clarify if i liked her romantically

I want her relationship to end in marriage as this is what would be amazing for her

She had my back and I had hers type of friendship.

I did talk to her about how friendships in opposite gender can be drama and arguments you know?

I definitely want to be a good guy friend, and a good partner in dating and relationships 😊

Can a Virgin be a sexual person?
Sorry if this sounded dumb

How you feeling today about your dating life?

I was dating a girl this year since February but she hardly communicate back to me
It sucks

I hope I didn’t let her down

I guess for me meeting a virgin girl helps me feel comfortable and relaxed about sex you know?

Yea, just friends
Only friends

[KC203]

Yeah
Honestly I really haven’t had much of a dating life. I haven’t dated since Covid. My last actual boyfriend was three years ago. I had been crushing on a friend of mine for a while right before Covid happened and it didn’t go well. So I spent Covid getting over him really. Then last year I met a guy and we went on one date but he ghosted me. Then a week later I had a back injury and almost failed high school. After much stress I finally graduated two weeks ago. I haven’t had really any time for myself in the last year. But now I’m trying to get back control of my life and I miss having a guy in my life but I doubt it’s gonna happen for me right now. I’m on bumble and was on it today for the first time in a year which is why I was on here.

[Asker]

So you definitely could relate to my question today then, yeah I used that Before and I hope I’m not complaining but girls there don’t talk much either

I want down to earth
Heart to heart conversation
Where you both connect type of way you know and would you agree?

I definitely hope we can at least talk more tomorrow 😊

Congratulations and well done on passing
Hope your back is okay today

Hope you go on a date this summer because it would be good for you

i understand this, many women want a guy who is hers and all hers type of way 😊

[KC203]

Thank you. 😁I’d love to talk more if you would like to?

[Asker]

I’m all yours.😊
You’re welcome.

So is your back okay?

[Asker]

Sorry was that too much?

i do miss having a special women in my life

i can always learn and improve

[Asker]

Thank you