How Do You Move On From A Female Friend You Like?

[Anonymous]

I have a female friend that I like. I always tell her I like her but she always say I’m keeping ya as my friend. I don't know what she likes about me that she wants me to be her friend. Sometimes I do things not of me and she ends up not running away from me. I do all this because I love her so much and don’t know any other way except showing my fake mean side to her hoping she’ll run away from me but every time I fail at it.

She always tells me I’m a good great friend. One time she was in a bad situation (she wanted to runaway and get off grid because she was scared about something) and told me she love me out of nowhere. I was shocked. Another time she had a boy put her down and she told me so I grabbed her hand and looked in her eyes. I told her stuff to lift up her spirit.

Another time she was in a relationship and I stepped away from her to forget about her. After that they split and she initiated contact with me 1st. I told her yesterday you know I tried my best to forget you but you initiated contact with me. I asked her why she told me because you are my friend and I care about you. I’m just confused.

Another time she had another boo and she told the guy so many things about me. He told me secretly that she told him so many things about a me. That I was her good friend. I argued with her that you can’t do that but she couldn’t understand what I was trying to say.

One time we were in a restaurant and she asked me can she get a bite of my food. I looked at her confused like she never done that before to me. All these things I don’t understand. I don't know what to do. Is tough being her friend while you like her so much. How do I move on from her.

[Blazingfang]

Sorry dude. She's gotta go. It hurts but you need go get away from her.

If you want to fall in love with other girls, you need to go "no contact on her".

I had a girl who liked me and i didn't feel the same way. I realized she was suffering by talking to me, so I disappeared. We are now good friends, because it gave her the chance to like someone else.

She doesn't have the righ to say "i'm keeping you as a friend". Friendship is one thing, you are equals in it. Friendzone is a toxic place to any person to be in. The other person knows the other likes them but they exploit it to they're personal gain with the "i need you right now".

If she was your friend, she would see how much you are suffering. Suffering to the point of asking for advice here.

Take action, you are worth more than this.

If she misses you, who knows, she might want you for more than a friend. If not, only talk to her when you're feelings are with someone else (that should give her an ulcer ahahaah).

Continue to be a decent man and move on to a woman that deserves you.

[Asker]

Your advice is good. Yeah was just thinking today if I should initiate never contacting again. When she texts or calls me I’ll just let it ring and not answer her no more.

[Blazingfang]

You can do it dude. She knows the reason. Live your life.

[DarkWinterNights]

You’re stuck in the friend zone my guy. She keeps you there because you give her time and effort and she can keep placating you but she will never be attracted to you the way you are to her. She’s using you and toying with your emotions when it’s convenient to her. You have to cut her out of your life or it will always torture you. Find someone who appreciates you and respects your time and friendship.

[Asker]

🙏🙏🙏💯💯 your advice is solid and factual.

[Asker]

Should I block her number? I still follow her on my social media and she follows me. Should I block her (they say this is little child behavior) or just work on letting her go naturally?

[DextroShade]

Yes, block her on everything or she will try to worm her way back into your life.

[DarkWinterNights]

Unless you’re really tore up every time you see her, I would try just distancing yourself from her first and if she starts causing drama then block.

[HateyouxD]

Ahhh unrequited love. So close but so far away. Maybe pour your heart to her just so you can get your feelings out and then block her. :( I'm sorry

[Asker]

😞 yeah trying to know if I should work on forgetting. Today I was going to make a vow to myself to end this year with her and never talk to her again even if she does text or call me. Yeah because it hurts being in her life knowing I like her so much.

[HateyouxD]

I'm doing the same thing. I'm leaving him behind in 2023. It's hard not talking to him or not being around him. I like him so much but it's unrequitted

[HateyouxD]

Gotta do what you gotta do

[HateyouxD]

Sorry I didn't mean to make it about me... I know it's hard but what can you do? She doesn't love you back sadly

[Asker]

Yeah I understand. Not loving me the same way I love her. I love her in a romantic sense but she always told me I’m a good friend.

[Asker]

I did pour my feelings to her many times but she always tells me you are my friend. I try my best to make her runaway from me but no success. If you only knew you’ll be shocked but she stills say no to me.

[HateyouxD]

Yes she's not into you that way I'm sorry dude. I bet you you can find someone way better. She will be lucky to have you

[Asker]

💯 understand. Yeah I noticed that she isn’t into me the way I think. This is why I’m stuck whether I should stop being friends with her or still be her friend.

[HateyouxD]

You can't just be her friend. You have feelings for her...

[Asker]

Yeah and I have to make the decision to go. I know when she text me again I’ll just tell her we can’t be friends anymore and I’m a tell her to please move on which I know she’ll be uncomfortable with but so be it.

[HateyouxD]

Yea let her know and then just bounce

[Asker]

💯 you are right. Let her know than bounce.

[HateyouxD]

Good luck

[Asker]

🙏🙏 I hear you.

[Asker]

I come here for advice. Why because it’s anonymous. If I dear share this with my friends it’s laughing sessions. All they gonna do is curse her out.

[HateyouxD]

I feel you. Somethings are better for strangers to help. Less judgment. But your friends are supportive too hahah she deserves it you're a great catch. But hey! Her loss

[Asker]

🥺😞 I know because I see her go from one guy to the next and they all treat her bad. The crazy thing is I always tell her the boy is gonna leave and what happens they leave within a week maybe because of her or them but my words come to pass. The deal breaker was when she told me a boy put her down and I literally grabbed her hand and told her put the phone down. Look at me in the eyes and I told her the most sweetest things.

[Asker]

Is just 😞 your advice is A-1.

[HateyouxD]

I agree with blazing too... maybe you should just walk away... for good. It's just not reciprocated. Don't hurt yourself any longer

[Asker]

🙏🙏💯💯

[Tharithi]

Why u love her in romantic way

[Nikki1989]

What is so hard to just be a friend. This all sounds very weak on your part.

[Asker]

You are right.

[DextroShade]

Bruh, this is completely unacceptable. You are giving her the boyfriend experience in that you are giving her your time, attention, and resources but she isn't giving you the girlfriend experience as in sex. This whole situation is a massive L for you so you need start respecting yourself and stop orbiting her in the hopes that she will one day be your girlfriend. You need to just straight up tell her that if she isn't diwn to fuck she has no place I your life and leave. Stop simping!

[Asker]

🙏🙏💯💯

[Asker]

Yeah I told her this once. I told her you have all these others boys you dish and dash with but me I’m always there for you when you down. Always the one to say encouraging words to you when I sense you need it but the boys you dish and dash (one night stands with or the many boos who come and go after 1 week) with just forget you. But me I’m always there for you.

[DextroShade]

She is using you as an emotional tampon while she rides the cock carousel. You should be offended that she has wasted so much of your time. Even if she did promote you out of the friend-zone she isn't wife material because she is for the streets.

[Asker]

🤷💯💯💯% hard 💊 to swallow. Yeah you are right.

[exitseven]

You are just prolonging the agony. She will never want to be more than a friend. You will never be able to move on as long as she is still around. You need to find someone else who really wants you.

[Asker]

Yup 💯🙏

[iFarted]

I found it's best for me to tell her that I need to be distant until I get over my feelings. I cut them out until I find a new interest or lose interest.

[serious_miss419]

Create boundaries in your life. It’s not her fault

[Asker]

What you mean?

[serious_miss419]

It’s up to you how you let someone treat you and how much you let them into your life.
If she doesn’t know your limits then it’s not her fault for being that way.

[Asker]

Understand you clearly.

[serious_miss419]

Relationships are often a lesson in what works and doesn’t work for us and how we want to move forward in the next one! 😊🖤

[Asker]

🥺🤔

[askthis56]

I dont have English that understand this compeletly but maybe she is confused in herself or may be she is using. You gotta have choice about her

[Anonymous]

You learn to love yourself and be aware that most women are pretty amazing not only her, also dont masturbate for a while that can really fuck your mind

[Jmmmfi4]

I LITERALLY NEVER GET OVER GIRLS