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So i found out a few years ago that i have this condition that basically makes stomach acid go back up the esophagus causing pains and discomfort (heartburn) and along with this thing i have frequent gastritis ( like once a year or twice) .

I kinda accepted that i have to keep taking this pill every morning to to reduce stomach acid but alone its not enough... i should quit caffiene, alcohol, spicy food and chocolate and the fun things in general... i dont and as a result i feel great for few months then sick and unable to eat for a month or so till it cools down... i realize my mistake and i know i shouls change my life style but iam afraid of not becoming normal, life is hard as it is being poor and working my but off at college and my job to get a degree plus the standards women have are skuly high and a condition like mine probably disqualify me... heck i havenr been having much succeess lately let alone a girl i like finding out somethig like this... anyways what you think?

I have been told by multiple women on here that these standards below are "too high" and I should just "stop looking" so do you agree with them that there are no girls like this and I need to lower my standards or stop looking? If so lower them to what?

Doesn't cheat
Doesn't lie to me

In 1979, I dated Pat. She was my first love. She was a cute girl but she was extremely unstable. I didn't care because she said she loved me. . . and she was cute. I ignored the fact that she was very insincere and very financially dependent on men. She broke up with me to go back to her ex-husband. In 2003, I reunited with her. We married in 2005. Late in 2006, she had an affair with another female. Early in 2007, we were divorced. FML!

In 1980, I dated Evelyn. I thought I loved her but I think I just loved having sex with her. . . and she was even prettier than Pat. She was a user of men and I was one of her victims. She went back to one of her exes and I moved 4 hours away from her. Later, I tried to reunite and establish a LDR but all I got out of my efforts was a little bit more sex.

After Pat and I divorced, I dated Oksana. She is a Ukrainian cutie and a sincerely very nice woman. We dated for about 6 months, but she got laid off from her job and then went to live with her adult daughter about 4 hours away. In 2015, I visited her for Valentine’s Day. We decided that the distance was too much of a barrier. In 2017, I saw her again. She has devoted her life to taking care of her granddaughters and I would never be her highest priority. Who wants to be number two?

Now, my standard advice is to not try to reunite with an ex. The problems that you initially encountered with probably resurface and even quicker the second time around. Of course, under some circumstances, it is POSSIBLE to reunite with an ex and make it work, but the odds of that happening are rather low.

Have you ever broken up with a significant other and then reunited, or tried to reunite? What were your expectations? Did it work? After reuniting, did it again fail for the same reason? A different reason? What is your advice about reuniting with an ex?

my standards are typically pretty high, i rarely do the initiating, and the last girl i liked told another guy that she wasn’t into me. even though she still talks to me a lot and glances at me constantly. i can’t get over her and i’ll see her a ton next year. should i just give up on searching for love? (i can’t seem to commit to anyone else with her on my mind)