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I have noticed quite a few people on here are not always happy with the ways guys or girls treat one another so I split this question into two categories one for if your a guy or girl responding and the second what would you expect of the opposite gender. (I understand that this topic can be very emotional for some so please try to keep all comments in a respectful manor after all we are all human and sometimes it just takes a little love and kindness to fix our broken hearts)

Most girls have a past. Why couldn’t they just pick well in the beginning? I get relationships are complicated but they go for red flags 🚩or ignore them and wonder why they got what they deserved? Going after the bad boy as they say.

Then afterwards they realise why no good men want to date them and struggle to take any accountability.

We don’t want what another men has had.

2/3 men under 30 are single in recent studies. I am single too.

I also wonder if girls are programmed by society to hate men. I mean it’s definitely a male negative culture we live in. Another factor is women earn money now, so is that what men were only valued for in the past?

When you meet girls it also appears like they don’t have any soul left or are just too self absorbed, or that they make no effort in themselves to be attractive to a man. Unaccountable or with bad behaviour

I don’t make effort in dating tbh, I don’t see why I should be the one making effort, women should come to me with all I am.