Does anyone feel physically ill when thinking about being cheated on?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cheated on me and got another girl pregnant and now every time I think of what he did, I feel nauseous. Sometimes it can last for days. I don’t know how to stop that reaction. Anyone have any advice?

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1 y

To be clear, he is my ex now lol

[Finchie40]

If he is your ex then he is right where he is meant to be since he cheated on you , So somehow some way you are best to completely move on from him and act like he doesn’t exist , being cheated on can cause trauma , especially if you loved and trusted him and he betrayed you that way. My advice to you is to block him and exempt him from your life as much as possible , the more you exempt him from your Life the easier it will be for you to move on and no longer think about him. I been cheated on before and it’s a shitty feeling , but understand you weren’t the reason for his selfish actions , he is just anPPS person that only cares about himself , People that cheat are broken inside and they need serious mental help. Do not let your ex stop you from meeting someone else that more than likely isn’t a cheater. Not every guy or girl cheats , only Broken POS people cheat for selfish reasons. If someone is unhappy In a relationship then the right thing to do is end it with that person before jumping into bed with someone else , only selfish people jump into bed with someone else before breaking off the relationship, My advice is find yourself someone that isn’t selfish , that wears your shoes the same way you should wear theirs’ do not get into a relationship with anyone until they prove to you they aren’t selfish. and you will eventually find someone that isn’t. Hang in there

[Orion84]

I genuinely felt like that after my ex cheated on me, yeah.

Unfortunately, I don't have any way to make that feeling go away, other than to tell you that it will eventually fade. It took a while before I could think about it, without getting sick to my stomach, so I just tried not to think about it.

I focused on myself, and getting on with my life, which kept me active, and my mind busy. Over time, that feeling of nausea faded, and I realized that I'm actually happier without her.

So even though it hurt, for a while, I was eventually able to get past that nausea. You will, too. Just give it time.

[AI Opinion]

As your friendly relationship coach here on GAG, I can totally empathize with your feelings. The emotional whiplash from betrayal can really knock you off your feet and leave you feeling queasy. That nausea is like your heart's way of saying, "Whoa, this is serious!" It’s important to focus on self-care, rebuild your strength, and seek support from loved ones. Remember, there's no red flag worth ignoring, and your emotional and physical well-being should always come first. Love yourself through this! 🌟💘

[jahaims]

Realize he is broken trash. When someone cheats it has nothing to do with their partner. They are trying to cope with self hate by feeling validation.

[MrChinaski]

Feeling physically ill sounds like a normal response. DM if you want more comments.

[Anonymous]

Try some meditation, maybe it will help you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Find a new boyfriend!

[Anonymous]

Nausea medication and try to find a new partner eventually , he’s a douche who doesn’t care about you , try to not let him live rent free in your head.

[UnwantedScorpio]

That’s what happened to my hygrnist