What does it feels like to cheat?

[Anonymous]

I got cheated on last year and obviously dumped and blocked her afterwards. However this has me wondering:

If I would've made the choice to cheat back (still a cheater), what would it have felt like? I already know what's it like getting cheated on but what's it like being on the other side of the coin? What's it like to cheat on a partner?

[Guy13]

I never have. This is going to be interesting. Looking forward to keeping eyes on replies.

[Asker]

Yes it's like more people relate more being betrayed, getting cheated on and not to what an actually cheater is like.
I was trying to place myself in their shoes in a non-judgmental way, trying to see if I can understand the reason.

[Guy13]

Oh, I see. Yours kind me. Well damn, you can see I gave it 12 hours to come back and read other replies…. There was a very good one though and he reminded me of a friend. It was weird how Brett was depressed, good-looking, and smart BUT jumped girl-girl with a girlfriend to fiancé…. until she finally said enough after 4 years of it. This is why I was interested, by the way. Thank you for the question. 👍

[D_Bone_Steak]

It doesn't fix anything and you'd still be pissed off that she started the chain of actions to begin with. I revenge cheated like X10 expecting it to at least justify what she did... nope still was pissed off about it. It fixed nothing.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing it. So in the end if I had done that, I would've gained nothing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah no bullshit dude, it wouldn't shut any of the voices in your head up. The very reason I turned into an ultra cheater that cheats so much that it would make a normal cheater blush... I was just trying to make shit right. Basically to be able to say she did that and it doesn't matter because look at how bad I am.

It didn't work at all... I mean like not at all. I was still pissed me off and it wracked my brain about why she would try that shit. I got the so called revenge and didn't feel better at all.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think I turned into a serial cheater because once I did it with one girl... I still felt bad, so I had to do another girl. Eventually I did more girls than most men get in their entire life and I was just still pissed off about how I could be cheated on.

Fucking retarded too because I was what most women say they'd want from a guy. Now I'm something else that just sleeps with lots of women.