How did you feel when you got cheated on?

[missindiana93]

Luckily never happened to me yet.

[OlderAndWiser]

I had that happen twice. The first time, we were supposed to be dating exclusively but we were not at the point of considering marriage. She and a good friend confessed that they had sex together and hoped that I would forgive them. I was horribly disappointed in my girlfriend. I lost a girlfriend and a friend at the same time.

The second time, I learned through a mutual friend that my wife had cheated with another female while we were still living together. At that point that I was informed, we were already in the midst of a divorce, and it was one more reason to hate her. I didn't hold on to the hate for a long time, but I have absolutely no respect for that woman and would not cross the street to piss on her if she was on fire.

[Finchie40]

It’s a shitty feeling that someone you gave your heart to and trusted , betrayed you that way , you thought they loved you the same , but you realize they did not and it’s a kick in the ass because they didn’t have the dignity and respect for you that you had for them. It hurts big time being betrayed by someone you loved

[Nikki1989]

I was only 13 when it happened to me. My first boyfriend, so I learned that lesson about men very early.

[Anonymous]

Hurt and betrayed

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the dreaded cheating scenario! Can't say I've personally experienced it—phew! But in my line of work, I've definitely seen the heartache it causes. 🌧️ It feels like a betrayal of trust—a real red flag moment. If it happens, it's all about navigating those emotional waters and figuring out your next steps with confidence, love! Stay strong and keep those positive vibes going! 💪💖

[Shiprex]

I was gutted.
Before I met my to be wife I was seeing this lass I invited to stay at my place while she worked and studied only to forget something one day from work so I drove home only to find her and her fuckboi work colleague about to get busy and right away I kicked him out and she was to follow with her stuff within 4 hours.

Disloyalty like that does not sit well with men and the level of disrespect is a kicker to your heart and soul. If you want to be with someone else then go fuck off and be instead of abusing someone else with lies and dishonesty

[Anonymous]

The first time was devastating because I did not see it coming, at all. It caught me completely off guard. The second time was worse in a way because the insecurity it left me with, and the distrust of women, has been very hard to shake. It's been 6 years since the second time and I still struggle with relationships. I'm that guy with baggage that people try to avoid.

[RedThread]

I was in my early 20s. It taught me a lot about the people I want to avoid going forward. I felt awful of course, but the woman was toxic anyway. It was a great excuse to leave her.

[xcheerleader_jessx]

Never been on that boat... that i'm aware of.

[Oldschool1981]

I'm actually okay with it, and it's not a deal breaker for me. My wife has a side guy and instead of breaking up, we just worked it into our marriage

[LiamJHayden]

I have not been to my knowledge. If I ever were I'd just move on. I might feel disgust at her.

[lookingforsomereal]

Im not ever opening my heart to a woman ever again. I've been alone and perpetually lonely for a decade now, and I have absolutely 0 interest in giving any woman a chance.

[SolitarySolace]

Like it would NEVER stop happening. No matter who I was with. And guess what? I was right

[fish5505_87]

Sucked!! Got over it, learned from it. Forgave the person!

[msc545]

Sad, and angry, and relieved that i found out the truth about what I had suspected...

[Professor-college]

Well unfortunately that happened to me 6 years ago and it's something that is difficult to get over but I managed to move on

[Anonymous]

I was 16
And seeing this girl for about two years
Then she broke up with me
And next week she was dating my best friend

Ouch
Still didn't get over that

[Opinion Owner]

They didn't last long
Afterwards I could see how I contributed to the breakup
I learned from it
I mean it was my own fault she left me
Obviously she has the other relationship teed up and I was betrayed twice by the two friends.

These things happen

[Opinion Owner]

I have a story about a friend who was cheated on
By his girlfriend and a male friend
He found out when they were in a car crash

[Anonymous]

It never happened to me, cause I'm single, always have been.

[Alex-Snow]

It has not happened to me yet

[MikeRJ]

It has not happened to me.

[Raeraecumslut]

Eager to taste her on him

[Maria90_]

Not cheated on but cheated with made me fill 💩.

[lonestarguy2000]

So you did the cheating?

[fartingspinster]

I think she means that someone she was seeing used her to cheat. That is a very tough spot to be in too... sorry maria90_ 💔

[Maria90_]

Thank You and finding out the hard way.

[fartingspinster]

Ugh, no one wins in this situation. Have you talked to the other partner and cleared the air? I hear sometimes that can be very healing for both females... be the support to each other that no one else would understand

[Maria90_]

Um I was with the wife.

[fartingspinster]

Oh ahahahha, my bad 😅 me and my assumptions

[Dargil]

Betrayed.

[Jay-_-]

"Luckily" indeed.

[Jay-_-]

This is how I saw it she cheated, I saved time, did it hurt yea a good amount but I'm more happy I didn't get stuck with her like I see some marriages.😬

[Ladsin2]

Not good.

[Smf1989]

It hurted