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So long story short this guy and I started talking and we both clicked and spent multiple days together just hanging out. We started making out and being intimate/ cuddling. We didn’t want to rush into things and both mutually wanted to fall in love with our best friend. Out of the blue he just went cold so I separated myself and then he stated he didn’t want kids (I have 2) which confused me even more so I backed off. He invited me over to look at my car (which he’d put off for a while) and then said I could hang out if I wanted. I didn’t try to cuddle or anything like we used to and he traced my arm and laid me on his chest. He invited me to go see a movie. I’m just confused. What in the heck?

Seems like the guys brag about it more. With my girlfriends they more keep it between us girls.

Every one love drama on TV but not always in life.

In December 2024, I met a guy on an app and was instantly attracted to him. He expressed that he found me pretty, which made me feel special. Despite the age difference of 1 year and 10 months—me being older—I didn’t think it would lead anywhere serious. However, I was pleasantly surprised when we began talking every single day. He would text me at any moment, even while he was at school or at practice, sharing pictures of what he was doing. Our conversations often stretched late into the night, sometimes until 1:00 AM, and he consistently sent me good morning texts that brightened my day.

As our connection deepened over the months, I noticed that he was genuinely invested in my life, asking about my family and recommending places he thought I’d enjoy. His enthusiasm is evident in his texting style; he often double, triple, and even quadruple texts, which shows how much he enjoys communicating with me. However, about six months in, while he was on vacation, his good morning texts stopped, although he still reached out regularly.

Now, nearly a year into our relationship, I’m left wondering why he hasn’t asked me out. It feels like we have a strong bond, akin to a romantic relationship, yet there’s no official label. He has shown signs of jealousy when I mentioned dating someone else, which makes me think he has deeper feelings for me. Despite our closeness, I’m unsure if he sees me as just a close friend or if he’s hesitating to take the next step. Our dynamic is unique, filled with warmth and connection, but I can’t help but wonder what’s holding him back from making a move.