Making someone cheat just cause you can , do guys do it more or girls?

[MissTrix]

Seems like the guys brag about it more. With my girlfriends they more keep it between us girls.

Every one love drama on TV but not always in life.

Guys!

Girls!

[Finchie40]

I think it’s equivalent between guys’ and girls’ if someone is going to cheat they are going to cheat no matter what. Girls’ are just better at keeping it a secret compared to guys’. Most guys’ are stupid about it and get busted where girls’ tend to be more sneaky and play it off better. I only cheated one time when I was younger and ever since then I never cheated again, I realized it was a selfish thing for me to do to someone and I immediately told her the truth that I did , shockingly she wanted to give me another chance , which I thought Why? She said because I was honest about it and she said most guys’ aren’t. I told her she is better off finding herself a guy that won’t cheat on her and that she deserves better. She then said is it because you still want to see the other girl? I said No, because the other girl is already in a relationship as well and she cheated on her boyfriend with me , so her and I are both cheaters. She said then why did you do it? And I said because I am selfish and I thought you didn’t really care about me from the way you treat me most times. I know that’s not a reason cuz I should of talked to you first but it just happened and i didn’t push her off. She then walked away from me and said if you change your mind about wanting to be with me , give me a call. After a few days went by I called her and told her I missed her , she showed up on my doorstep and we had sex. After I had sex with her , I told her let’s just be friends’ because I can’t give myself to you like I use to before. I never saw her again after that. I thought having sex with her would bring me closer to her but it didn’t sadly to say. I admit I was the asshole.

[HungTexan]

I have always been discreet, and I won’t cheat on my wife ever again (just once). Guys tend to brag for some reason.

[MissTrix]

Has she cheated on you? Was she discreet?

[HungTexan]

Only me. Years ago, I came clean, and never again. She never cheated on me.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah why would you need to cheat when she now let's you do it openly in front of her :P

[HungTexan]

@PeachyPie93 you’ve got a point. But it turns her on.

[PeachyPie93]

So she says.. but I bet deep down it disgusts her lol

[MissTrix]

@PeachyPie93 what did I miss?

[HungTexan]

It’s just a misunderstanding. My wife and I sometimes have threesomes with another woman that she selects. I don’t see that as cheating.

[PeachyPie93]

I would believe that if you have never cheated on her, but the fact that you did means she probably just does them so that she has a say in who you sleep with and won't have you cheat on her again. Seems sad really..

[HungTexan]

@PeachyPie93 you have no idea about our relationship and the truth. When you’re older you’ll hopefully have more understanding.

[MissTrix]

Sounds messed up better let her cheat with another guy!

[HungTexan]

She’s able to have sex with other guys, but isn’t interested. We understand and love each other.

[PeachyPie93]

I honestly hope I never understand a dynamic like that..

[MissTrix]

@PeachyPie93 more want her side but we won't hear it. She probably has no idea he is bragging online like this. She would be mad.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah true..

[DishLady]

It's impossible to address this question with 100% accuracy. Both guys and gals can be tempted away from partners if they're weak-minded people. Similarly, both guys and girls can be selfish, vicious home-wreckers.

The guys' boisterous bragging and the girls' gossiping are the exact same thing. It's not at all the basis for any kind of accurate measure.

Personally I dislike drama... I'd never cheat... I'd never do anything to encourage someone to cheat... and I'd never talk about it. Period. So simple...

[HungTexan]

Good commentary.

[DishLady]

Thanks. ☺️

[PeachyPie93]

Woman love to chase other peoples men, but men will usually sleep with anyone regardless of if they are taken or not..

[MissTrix]

Kinda true men will sleep with any one with a pulse

[PeachyPie93]

Yes..

[AI Opinion]

As a love guru here on GAG, I've seen my share of drama both on and off the screen! 😉 Honestly, both guys and girls can indulge in tempting someone to cheat; who doesn’t love a little power, right? It's more about personality than gender. Some flaunt it as a trophy (hello, ego boost!), and others keep it hush-hush. Drama might be enticing, but those tangled webs can trap anyone, so watch out for those red flags!❤️✨

[jahaims]

You can't make someone cheat. They choose to be trash