Girls Cheat more than Guys Do , Do you find this true?

[Finchie40]

I am leaning more to yes that this is true because Girl’s have more options then guys do , bottom line , Statistics show this is a proven fact , I am not saying every girl cheats but a majority of girls over the majority guys , yes I agree on this. Prove me wrong, Most guys don’t have the options that girls have , Most Girls are bombarded with tons of options. Do you agree or disagree

[Whateveryousay99]

Yeah the reality is only like 10 to 20% of men are having sex with 80-90% of women. A very small minority of men are having sex with most of the girls. Most guys are effectively invisible to women. It’s far more women cheating than men and the reason why is because, what’s happened is maybe 50 years ago, it might of been more equal or men might have cheated more because they left the house more, there was more constraints on women to not be promiscuous and to not cheat but in todays day and age with the internet and the ability of women to be able to kind of cheat with discretion and social media, times have change and even if you take a guy whose the best looking guy, that’s good with women, status all that other stuff, he’s still going to have to work to some degree to get women whereas a women that’s below average looking is going to have her pick of the litter so even a very horny successful guy that goes out there and approaches 100 girls a day, he’s not going to have the same level of options and sexual availability that a women that is average looking when she goes into a club so it’s far easier for women to get laid than men and as a matter fact, there's a couple studies that show that young men nowadays are supporting the lowest levels of sex than ever before. I personally say social media is a huge contributor to this because what’s happened is a girl that was like in the middle of nowhere before, (let’s say idaho) that maybe attractive in her local area, well she’s going to pass up on guys that she had in that local area for guys that are in Miami, l. a and New York City, etc. Now she can get flown out, we have a flew out culture. I always say men are as faithful as there options and women too but the thing with women is women want the best so if a guy is from l. a who is a celebrity athlete or w. e hits a women up and say “hey, you want to come out to l. a for a few days”, majority of women are going to say “hell yeah, fk it, it’s cold as hell here in Idaho” and there going to go so that’s what’s going on.. A lot of guys are kind of getting left in the dust and kicked to the curb, invisible because the higher status men are having sex with all the girls.

[ManOnFire]

I do believe women cheat more than men, and I think they enjoy how people don't suspect it as much as with men, and how they get away with it.

But I have said something similar to your own point: if we believe women can get sex or a relationship more or easier than men can, then it's impossible to believe men cheat more.

[desidoll]

There is no way to find out which gender cheats more because statistics are not THAT accurate, and not everyone is willing to admit the truth when it comes to loyalty. I’d just assume both cheat equally BUT for some reasons, men tend to get caught more since women are better at hiding things and we are less vocal about our personal especially when it involved something like this. I know plenty of men who brag about them having multiple gfs/affairs to their buddies not knowing one of them is not trustworthy enough to keep their secret.

[DizzyDesii]

I think women cheat more in secret while men cheat more openly. I also think women emotionally cheat more but men physically cheat more. So basically some of everyone cheats but in different ways. Im guilty of probably emotionally cheating in the past. But i often told the guy and he didn't care as much because it wasn't physical. He just stepped his game up and tried to be a better boyfriend while i tried to be a better girlfriend

[HighValue]

From what I have seen IRL, yes that is true and it is by a large margin. I can say that there is a surprising number of women that work in schools that cheat on their SO, and very few of the men that I have known working in schools that did that.

[Finchie40]

YES!!! Lol So many female school teachers screwing their students and cheating on their husbands , very seldom to you hear a male teacher doing this

[DWornock]

You cannot have one without the other so it is equal. Guys may be more inclined to if they have the opportunity but they can't cheat if the women don't allow it.

[SkinTeethHairNails]

Really? It’s equal? There aren’t some guys out there getting more pussy than a toilet seat while others can’t even get a date?

C’mon.

[DWornock]

@SkinTeethHairNails Can you even read?

[SkinTeethHairNails]

I can read your ridiculous post. Yes. And it’s ridiculous. Absurd even.

[nice-girl]

@SkinTeethHairNails and @DWornock both of what you are saying can be true. While dwornock is talking about the times it happens (equal between men and women as they cheat with each other) and SkinTeethHairNails is talking about the number of people that do it (more women with the same men)

[3o43o4]

Yes and they hide it better , women are the biggest manipulative on earth, they are addicted to attention for they go look for it.

[Finchie40]

Yes, Girl’s Night out is way worse then Guy’s night out , When a Girl has toxic Girlfriends she will easily be pulled away from her relationship by her toxic friends brainwashing her to believe all men are scum and cheaters when really it’s the girl’s that are scum and cheaters , Her toxic friends will make her feel that she isn’t being treated right and that she deserves better , not realizing that her toxic friends don’t really give 2 shits about her they just like the drama of it all , they will pull her away until they eventually find a guy for themselves and then they kick your girlfriend or wife to the curb and drift away and never call her again , Girl’s are very manipulative and selfish and why most Girls can’t be friends with each other , Always fights and drama when girls try to be best friends , It’s sad but true , Most Girl’s thrive off of drama and only really care about themselves Most girl’s are very selfish and always think grass is greener on the other side , Why most relationships do not make it , I am not saying guys are perfect but a guy is not easily pulled away from a girl he loves and cares about he will fight for her and protect her at all cost but if she makes him feel that he is less of a man and constantly criticizes him and makes him feel that he isn’t good enough for her then he will more than likely give up on her and start looking elsewhere , As for girls they will cheat on her good man for a guy with a higher status then her current man , she will be drawn to the way he presents himself , his confidence and how others look up to him , is job status is a huge turn on to most girls so she will start resenting her man and feel like he isn’t like this guy that she deserves better and compare her life to others , she will feel like she deserves to be treated better , so she will get on her knees to this other guy and allow him to have his way with her , I know this for a fact because sadly I had my fair share of married women

[Finchie40]

That lied about being married and then start crying to me after I found out and tell me her husband treats her like shit and he doesn’t care about her blah blah blah , when really he did care about her she just choose not to fix it

[Anonymous]

100%
Women have more ability
Women get men coming after them so they just pick.
Women generally have grass is greener syndrome.

[Finchie40]

I pretty much agree with the grass is greener syndrome , Most girls are selfish and only really care about themselves , they can have a great guy that treats her like Gold and she will find flaws in him and use that as her excuse to cheat on him or allow herself be drawn to another guy , Most girls are drawn by a guys status and most girls tend to compare her man to other guys to her friends or pretty much what she c’s on social media , comparing her life to the life she already has, instead of watering the grass she is already standing on she will find reasons to go to the other side and play a victim. Again I am not saying every girl does this, and I am not saying all guys are saints when it comes to relationships , but from my experiences and from things I witnessed in life this is very true , I use to work as a bouncer in a night club and I people watched like crazy part of my job , and I was shocked on how Girls were on the top of the list for cheating on their men , it was sad to see , I would have guys come to the bar and ask me if I have seen his girlfriend or wife and show me a picture of her , and sadly I had to lie to him because we didn’t want fights breaking out and drama starting , but 90 percent of the time the girl was in the bar making out with another guy hanging out with her toxic girlfriends , It was so fucked up to witness and we would track the girl down in the bar and kick her out and tell her she needs to leave cuz we didn’t not want fights breaking out. The time I worked there , , Not once did I ever have a girl come to me looking for her boyfriend or husband, Cuz guys night out is nothing like Girl’s night out , Most Girls night out are way more toxic than guys night out and Girl’s wonder why their boyfriends or husbands get upset about them going out , it’s nothing to do with insecurities it’s more to do with respect and Girl’s again will play a victim and say he doesn’t trust me , when that isn’t the case at all

[anylolone]

No, because they are cheating with guys.
Logically the number is more or less equal.

[douride2]

I'm not saying this is true or not. How about a link to these statistics that show it is a proven fact.

[Finchie40]

Honestly statistics mean shit , I just asked this question based off what I read just to hear what others had to say about this , Through my own experiences in life and what I have witnessed and things I have done , it is easier for me to lean toward the fact that yes Girl’s cheat more but my beliefs don’t really mean shit considering everyone is different and not everyone is a cheater , Cheating is just a huge topic that is talked about all over social media to the point it’s pretty pathetic. but sadly it’s something that happens and something we really can’t control , only you can make your own choices in life and what you choose to do in a relationship , Most people can’t admit when they are wrong so it’s easier to point fingers at someone else then it is to tell themselves that they are wrong , We are all imperfect people and we all want to be loved and valued and wanted , when we give our heart to someone we pray we receive what we give to them in return , and sadly that isn’t always the case , Most people know cheating is wrong and horrible to do to someone but they do it anyways , whether they are selfish people or they feel justified for their actions , no one really knows what someone is going through in their own lives or what they are dealing with , all I know is what I choose to do with my life , if I am in a relationship with a girl I don’t commit to be single , but if she chooses to than that’s something she has to live with and something she has to face on her own , yes I will be hurt and devastated if I found out she cheated on me , but all I can do is walk away , if I cheat on a girl that is my answer to end it with her , I am not going to string someone along for my own selfishness , not only am I wasting her time I am wasting my time of missing out on finding true love , Cheating on a partner to me is a sign that you don’t really love and value them so why keep someone around that you can’t sacrifice for and respect , people will say I

[Finchie40]

Stay with them for the kids or I have to much invested to throw it all away , those are dumb reasons to stay with someone that you truly don’t value , Things are
Just things , yes it would suck but I know I will be fine and can get back on my feet again , I am a hard worker and can survive , I am not going to just stay with someone because of what’s invested , life is too short to be with someone that makes you miserable , find someone that values and loves you like
You do for them , things will work out

[douride2]

If statistics mean nothing then why in your question do you say "Statistics show this is a proven fact" ? Your words not mine.

[Finchie40]

Again I am just basing off of what I read , I don’t really believe half the shit I read honestly , I feel social media is a bunch of garbage to be honest with you , but like i said In my opinion I lean more
To believing that this is true based off of my own life experiences that’s all , everything in life comes down to your own personal experiences bottom line , no matter what others say , We all believe what we want
To believe , Life to me is 2 sides period , just because I believe something it doesn’t t mean you will agree , there is always 2 sides of everything in life , you are Either a cheater or not a cheater , you are either a good person or a bad person , when push comes to shove it doesn’t really matter , we all make our own choices in life , d we all suffer the consequencess of our actions on what we choose to do , we are all imperfect people , just because I don’t agree with something you believe doesn’t make me a bad person and vice versa , All we can do is do what’s best for ourselves , When I am in a relationship I looks at it as her and me vs the world , is that’s how I look at things , no one else really matters unless you allow it yourself to matter. I. Choose to surround myself with people that agree with me , the ones that don’t will suffer their own consequences for the chooses they make , it’s their life and choices , You don’t have to agree with t what the said or do e , they
their own grave

[Anonymous]

Statistics say otherwise.

[LogicBomber]

“Statistics” are often gathered by females looking to write articles bashing men.

[Paige90]

I think is equal

[Finchie40]

A cheater is a cheater period , but through my experiences in life and what I went through and witnessed Girl’s have topped my category., My journey is to find one that doesn’t

[RedStiletto88]

Guys cheat more.

[Jessica745855]

Not true at all.

[In_Trance]

no, it's 50/50

[krystalicious]

not true