Do girls cheat more than guys?

[PiuBelloAmante]

It seems like a lot of girls here, i always ask questions about cheating, it seems the guys on here dont cheat as much as the girls
Like girls here ask questions like "should i tell him i cheated"
or "should i cheat?"
i see it all the time and it pisses me off as someone who has been cheated on...

Cheating happens from both sexes, but I don't know, i feel like every girl thinks about it now days...
so ladies please tell me, i really am losing hope...

[SakuraChii]

I go with guys because of what I see in daily life concerning myself, friends and family and there was this biology of it all being men wanting more partners than woman because they can't get impregnated, they can impregnat a whole bunch of people while females can't just like any other mammal organism such as dogs or lions for example. But I don't completly go with that I say that you can't say that men or women cheat more because what you and I see (experience wise) may be different from what others see.

[PiuBelloAmante]

very true,
i dont believe in the whole polygamy thing with guys that we need more than one lover at a time etc
As men we are above animals...

[vmw2008]

I think you need to consider the population on this website. The majority of women here have pretty active dating lives and are seeking answers to problems occurring (cheating). The majority of men here have less active dating lives and are seeking solutions on how to date and get women (not cheating).

My honest opinion? I think in real life, the stats are even. I've heard of just as many guys and girls cheating.

[PiuBelloAmante]

So true... it just gets me a bit upset!

[vmw2008]

What does?

[singlebee]

@Opinion owner - the cheating gets him upset on the girls part...

[vmw2008]

@singlebee, ok well if it's equal to the guys then we're all in the same boat, no? Women have been putting up with this for a long time unfortunately.

[PiuBelloAmante]

yeah people have been cheating since forever
i think in the past men probably did cheat more, but now i feel like its pretty even

[singlebee]

Yup right... have you ever cheated?

[PiuBelloAmante]

me never! i have been cheated on and would never put a girl through that

[CatInLove]

Not every female cheats or thinks about doing it. I'm against it and I find it disrespectful. I'm sure many other women think like me. Don't loose hope. :-)

[PiuBelloAmante]

Thanks!
yeah I don't know, it just gets me upset, because i see it almost everyday on here...
just get upset some times...

[PiuBelloAmante]

I won't lose hope!

[Hephaestus]

Both sides cheat unfortunately
only way ya can tell is by folk who admit it...
I had a gf who cheated on me... I literally caught her ass... she denied it and said I was dreaming, for 2 weeks till finally giving in... soooo... yeah lol
about even I'd say hah

[been_waiting]

She told you you were dreaming?

[Hephaestus]

Indeed
now
I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.. but I can cut butter at least
and how stupid do ya have to think someone is, that they will believe that lol
@been_waiting

[been_waiting]

She has some nerve

[Hephaestus]

Indeedy
then when she finally put her hands up to it
she was shacked up with Le fella at the time :p

@been_waiting

[DaddyRollingStone]

Girls will cheat on any guy for any guy that can make them feel good about themselves long enough to get them back to their bed.

www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...st-better-lying-it.html

[XRabbitHeartX]

Well maybe the male cheaters just don't ask questions on this website or remain silent about it... Just because people aren't asking questions on it doesn't mean it's not happening. I personally know of more guys who have cheated than girls but I don't think it is gender specific. Both genders are capable of it.

[PiuBelloAmante]

yeah i guess dudes who are cheating aren't using gag...

[XRabbitHeartX]

They too busy cheating to be on here 0_o

[PiuBelloAmante]

haha yeah well said

[bunniexx]

We'd have to poll every male and female in the world to know the real answer. I think it's easier to believe that men do the most cheating because it's more socially acceptable for men to sleep around than it is for females plus the way society glorifies slutness (yes, that is a word) in males. That could be why you don't see guys on here asking that because they don't have much reason to. If they get caught they can just be like "Hate the game, don't hate the playa, baby" and still be loved where as women have to be sneakier about it.

[PiuBelloAmante]

valid point
women are definitely viewed more harshly when they cheat, i dont discriminate screw all cheaters!
and yeah girls are sneakier about it... but that doesn't necessarily mean they cheat more than guys

[peachblossomluck]

It's awful when anyone does it but women usually do it because the man she is with has somehow alienated her emotionally. Men generally don't need a reason. They just need the right opportunity. She feels guilty or vindicated, he feels paranoid she'll find out. That's what I think the typical scenario is

[PiuBelloAmante]

Interesting...
i think there is always a reason behind a cheating, I don't know if guys just look for the right opportunity
I had plenty of right opportunities and never took them

[peachblossomluck]

You are strong in morals and heart so you don't do disgusting things like that. Your self esteem is probably healthy and you tend to respect others, I imagine?

[been_waiting]

I've noticed the opposite. of course the guys will say girls cheat more and the girls will say guys do.

In my experience guys cheat more. Some of my guy friends have (versus one female friend), I know my brother has, my friends boyfriends have, (versus none of my male friends gfs), and I've been cheated with (I didn't know he had a gf until later)

Of course this doesn't prove anything, its just my experience.

[been_waiting]

Also I've read that men are better at not getting caught and are less likely to admit to it.

[PiuBelloAmante]

woah very interesting, i always thought girls were better at keeping it a secret lol!
it goes both ways... cheaters never win at least we can all be happy about that

[MorningPersona]

Data shows guys cheat more than girls. Maybe they're (girls) just evening the score in the cheating game... if truth be told though, no one should be playing it to begin with

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

i read the same thing but then i also read that girls are less likely to admit it when surveyed, which skews the data. my assumption is it's close to even.

[Jdjfjcjj]

@xobrowneyedbeauty doubt it. Women are gatekeepers to sex and what they consider cheating changes based on their emotions. Most guys are invisible to women and can't get one girl to find him attractive enough much less another woman to cheat with.

[Anonymous]

It's impossible to determine who cheats the most. I have never cheated and never will. I have female friends who cheat, others who don't. I also have malefriends who cheat, others don't

[PiuBelloAmante]

Yeah i know... =(
i was just upset when i wrote this, i saw quite a few cheating questions asked by the ladies here on GAG

[CHARismatic110]

I've been cheated on in both my relationships. So I'm gonna have to go with guys on this one.

[tyber1]

That seems like a very flimsy argument. I know a guy whose been cheated on in both of his very serious relationships.

[CHARismatic110]

@tyber1 both of my relationships were serious. I also have friends that have been cheated on as well. One of them has been with a guy for 6 years. They have 2 kids. She just found out that he's been cheating pretty much from the beginning. So in my personal experience, it seems that guys cheat more. That's not to say that girls don't, because they do. But this is MY OPINION.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I hate cheaters! i am sorry to hear that...

[CHARismatic110]

@asker so do I! Thanks tho.

[Anonymous]

Run a search on what do you consider cheating and see which gender asking.

Here's the missing component, how can they say they've cheated when they have to ask such humerous questions?

[Klaatu51]

personally i believe guys do it more often!

[xHeartFeltSorrow]

Any gender can cheat. :S

[PiuBelloAmante]

i know...
i just saw 4 questions about cheating/or thinking about cheating etc
before asking this, and they were all asked by girls

[Rocky96]

Who got the chance try to win the game.