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Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him.

Do you think most people end up with their same size of a partner? I don't like that to be honest with you because it's not like they can HELP their body type! (Nor can I for that matter and I'd be the skinny one in the relationship). How much a person weighs and their body shape is a lot based on genetics and lifestyle! One you can control yes, but the other you can't! Also, I think age is and health is a big factor as well!.. Your thoughts?

Plus, I've seen "different shaped couples" work out so..

The actor John Goodman (from Rossanne fame), his real life wife was, I wouldn't say skinny, but definitely not fat. She just started gaining weight after having children and aging, but when she was younger, she wasn't his body shape!

My ex's brother is also skinny but his wife is more of normal shape.

I also had another ex who had a friend who was dating this fat chick. It was like a ball and stick I would say to myself lol. Sorry yeah, that was mean. I learned my lesson lol. It's just that she wasn't always nice lol and so I guess I gave her that nickname in my head to make up for it lol. .. And the dude was skinner than normal, that's why.

Update: Just like being racist, it's not like you can always control your body shape! and people can change shape once they get older, get sick, situation, socio-economic changes, etc!

I believe self respect is not worth losing for an egoistic guy who only cares for himself and can't be there for his girl whenever she needs and always expects her to make the first move. I believe guys should make a first move not girls always. There are girls who simply wants to be nice so they make first move without ego but these egoistic guys treat them with no respect. It's always better for a girl to be with a guy who makes the first move and is ready to sacrifice anything for her rather than an egoistic guy who simply uses her as much as he wants and throws her away when he loses interest, blocks her, treats her like shit, can't see her moving on with other guy, don't let her move on with other guy, manipulates her, does all the narcissistic things to her, only cares about himself and not her, chases other girls shamelessly in front of her. Who wants to be with this kind of egoistic guy? I know some girls get attracted to these kind of guys but eventually they make their way to their greatest heartbreaks, unfulfilled life they get. They can never be truly content and always suffers with these second type of guys. Do you agree?