Not be wanting to be in a relationship with an egoistic guy is an act of self care. Do you agree?

[Anonymous]

I believe self respect is not worth losing for an egoistic guy who only cares for himself and can't be there for his girl whenever she needs and always expects her to make the first move. I believe guys should make a first move not girls always. There are girls who simply wants to be nice so they make first move without ego but these egoistic guys treat them with no respect. It's always better for a girl to be with a guy who makes the first move and is ready to sacrifice anything for her rather than an egoistic guy who simply uses her as much as he wants and throws her away when he loses interest, blocks her, treats her like shit, can't see her moving on with other guy, don't let her move on with other guy, manipulates her, does all the narcissistic things to her, only cares about himself and not her, chases other girls shamelessly in front of her. Who wants to be with this kind of egoistic guy? I know some girls get attracted to these kind of guys but eventually they make their way to their greatest heartbreaks, unfulfilled life they get. They can never be truly content and always suffers with these second type of guys. Do you agree?

Yes, it's great and it's self care because he will always make you question your own worth and try to make less respectable in public

No, he is a top tier because a girl should always lose her respect for a boy she wants to be with

[boggboss]

So if a girl makes the first move the guy is a egoist but if the guy makes the first move the girl is just normal interesting I guess if that's how you view it and fair enough if that's what u want

[boggboss]

I'm confused tho if a girl makes the first move she loses respect for herself but if a guy does somehow he is not losing the same

[Asker]

No, a girl finds it attractive if a guy makes the first move but if a girl makes the first move some boys view it as desperate or something similar, they will start treating her with less respect and will eventually show their true colours and worst side that a girl doesn't like to see

[boggboss]

So because some girls are assholes if a women is yo forward u liable any guy that would like a girl to make the first move with them thats lile me saying some women like a guy to make all the first moves or initiate anything because they don't think they should put effort it at all so all women that expect a guy to make the first move do it because they don't want to put effort in

[Yannae]

An act of good decision making is what that is.