Is it an immediate red flag in a man/woman you want to be in a relationship if he/she don't have good relationships with their immediate family?

[Anonymous]

For instance, let's say a man/woman you want to be in a relationship, doesn't see eye-to-eye with any of his/her immediate family and butts heads with them a lot that he/she became estranged from them and haven't talked to them since then. And then you meet him/her and he/she is reluctant to introduce you to his/her immediate family.

Is that a massive red flag to you for a relationship?

Yes

No

Depends

Others

[MoniqueTLC]

Not necessarily. Until you know the underlying reasons why their relationship is damaged, you shouldn't disregard the person from a potential relationship with you. Of course, family difficulties can come in the way to an extent, but if they no longer have a relationship, chances are you won't be meeting them, or having to deal with the situation anytime soon.
They may have boundaries put in place which they're sticking to, and ultimately causing the family and them to knock heads, which should be deemed as a positive.
It would depend case by case of course

[LazerBean]

Any drama they have with their family if going to also be my drama when we get married, so that was a pretty big red flag for me but not an immediate no.

[jshm2]

There is no law that says you must get along with everyone in your family, and all you meet outside.

It depends only that they are civil, and have a good grounding in social and personal interactions.