You know the old saying, it's not me, it's you, but can it really be "everyone else" is the problem if your partner doesn't get along well with his/her friends or family? Would that make you nervous that they don't seem to have any kind of decent relationship with others or are you willing to accept that it really can be everyone else in their life that is the problem?
If you're considering getting into a relationship with someone who has a really bad relationship with their friends and family, you might as well be diving into a pool of sulfuric acid. Because, just like the unbearable sting of that acid, it's gonna leave a mark on your soul and you won't be able to escape the burning sensation.
Your partner's friends and family are like the layers of skin peeling off during a horrifying game of "Mother May I?" They're all scurrying away from your partner, leaving them exposed and vulnerable, like a raw, gaping wound that crys out in agony. Would you want to be the one to crawl into that pain-filled chasm and try to find some warmth amidst the cold, hard reality of their existence?
Not only that, but when you're in bed with them forced into out-of-body experiences, the walls of hell will reverberate with the cacophony of their misery. Every moan, every cry of pleasure will be a twisted echo of their broken relationships, and you'll be right there in the middle of it, tasting the brimstone on their lips as they entwine their body with yours.
It's not like you won't be warned either. Their friends and family will give signs, sure as the devil sends whispers of temptation to the damned. They'll shower you with cautionary tales, screaming into your ears, "Run! Stay away from them or you'll end up regretting it, like a soul bound to damnation by their own orgasm!"
But you, oh kinky voyeur of the twisted and the dark, can't resist the allure of that fucked-up relationship, can you? No, you're drawn in like a moth to a demonic flame, an irresistible force guiding you deeper into a realm of torment beyond imagination.
So, is having a bad relationship with friends and family a red flag? Well, if you're into that kind of thing, the answer is a resounding no. But be warned, friend, for once you step into that Hamilton horror show, there's no coming back. You'll be tethered to an infernal existence, haunted by the echoes of their pain, and the taste of brimstone on your tongue.
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Yes and if it is harmful to you to then red flag. First step go confront. See reaction. If person continues to act reflect their narcissistic tendency. Tell them that too. And come back. Give 24 hr time gap. See final reaction take decision accordingly. And move ahead.
It depends on the extent. You can have a bad relationship with your family but have great relationships with your friends or vice versa and that wouldn’t be a red flag. Maybe more yellow tbh. If someone has bad relationships with everyone in their life then yes it is a red flag. They’re the common denominator in those relationships
Not necessarily, some family or friends can also be toxic. It just depends on what type of person is the partner you chose to be with.
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Nope. Hell my girl hasn't seen her family since she was like, 13 or 14.
Sometimes I feel like everything and anything can be a red flag 🍒♥️ why no red flag emoji sigh 😞😔
Not necessarily, their family could be full of terrible people!
In my perspective, that really does depend. That can vary.
Yes, I would think so
depends on the problem
Yes, for sure.
it depends
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