This is actually what I am going through in my marriage. I have told myself many times that if things do not work I would not try again. I couldn't bare going through this again with another person.
I am happy to see he is finally getting help for his issues. He still does not grasp how to be empathetic towards my personal pain on our situation but I know it hurts him to much to know he hurt me.
I love him dearly, I feel as though I am dangling right now waiting to see where this all will take him and if it matters that I loved him and stood by him or would he go to what seems like greener pastures.
He tells me I am out of league, this hurts me because all I want is for him to see me at his level or at least for him to know for me he is my equal.
I am sorry you endured a relationship you worked hard in but did not work. It's no way to live if two people are not going to put in the equal effort and respect to learn how to improve for each other and oneself.
I really hope love still is out there for those who want to find it and want to keep hope that they will find a supportive and equally uplifting partner as themselves.
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It’s not about defending yourself it’s about you both finding where you can take accountability to move on in a healthy way and come to an understanding of what you both need to feel safe in the relationship.
Secular reasoning is counterintuitive to Forgiveness and Biblical reasoning. Forgiveness (release of debt) is commanded however Trust may or may not be restored. Unforgiving person knows nothing of Grace (getting what is undeserved, freely) or Mercy (not getting what one does deserve).
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Sure, especially if it can't get resolved. Things tend to fester when that happens.
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