Girls and guys honest , when you go away for a weekend with your girlfriend or guy friend or friends , Are you being innocent?

[Finchie40]

I hear so many horror stories that girls aren’t innocent that they tend to be up to no good, for guys not so much but definitely possible, per my experiences girl’s are worse , guys tend to do normal shit like fishing or hunting or camping not saying all , but I feel girls are worse at this than guys are , do you feel that they are lying when they tell you that they aren’t going to do anything bad So are you comfortable with your Girlfriend or wife or boyfriend or husband leaving for a Friends weekend somewhere? Do you trust them enough that they aren’t going to flirt with other guys and girls and stay faithful to you? You know they are going to more than likely have alcohol in them and act silly with their friends so what helps you accept this and let them go , Me personally, it doesn’t bother me if things are going well in the relationship but if their has been any bumpy arguments and disagreements in the relationship it is harder to trust them, What do you think? , What if your partner was pushing you to go away with your friends as well would you go or would you feel they want you to go so it’s ok for them to go? I know you can’t force someone not to cheat on you but do you feel your relationship is over if your partner is doing this and demanding this? What would your feelings be like? Would you trust them or feel like the relationship is coming to an end? I use to trust them and not really care until I realized they were up to no good , so it’s harder for me now to trust them , it sucks I feel this way but I been burned to many times , so what do you do when this occurs in your relationship , Even though I tend to express my feelings of concern to her i feel like it goes in one ear out the other , but I tell her
To have fun even though I am hurting in the inside , So do you just let it happen and pray for the best or do you just go do your own thing and be up to no good yourself

[DizzyDesii]

Normally i wouldn't go away with a friend of any sort unless we’re going to a theme park or on a shopping spree. Anything else, I’d prefer to do alone, with family, or with a significant other. Im not sure what people do on their little “friendly” get aways. Hope it ain't no brokeback mountain type shit 🤣 But im pretty sure it consists of either hardcore flirting with eachother or someone else while doing random activities (hiking, camping, etc) OR just gossiping about your relationships while doing those activities. Then again, some people truly need a break from their stressful relationship and may strictly focus on the activities to get away from it all

[Finchie40]

I am laughing at the Broke Back Mountain quote cuz honestly that has crossed my mind considering the girl I been seeing all of a sudden became good friends with a girl that is married to one of my Brother’s friends , that their marriage has been on the rocks , so all of a sudden this girl instantly attached herself to my girlfriend and acting like they are these new best friends. Calling each other all the time and planning girls trips together , I don’t really care for the girl considering the shit I have heard through her husband that they been having issues and I knew this girl for years cuz she is friends with my brother and I know she doesn’t care for me to much but all of a sudden this girl latches on to my girlfriend out of the blue like they are these new best friends that were destined to be together , calling each other all the time like almost Gay shit it seems very weird to me , they are planning a weekend getaway to a couples spa and dinner and I guess shopping and staying the same room together , my girl is telling me to go away with the guys this coming weekend skiing , she knows I don’t care for skiing but pretty much pushing me to go so I don’t feel guilty about her going away , part of me just doesn’t trust this a 100 percent but I am just trying to let it go , My girlfriend and I been having troubles ourselves butting heads but she says she loves me and we been working through things but part of me feels like she is stringing me along , I can’t really put my finger on it and yes some of it does stem down to some of my insecurities from being shit on in the past , but this sudden change in my girlfriend becoming friends with this girl is a little weird to me , she is married with kids but it doesn’t mean she isn’t bi , so the whole thing isn’t sitting well with me and I don’t know what to do

[Finchie40]

Please help me out my Aquarius friend 😋

[DizzyDesii]

Lol just one day randomly ask her if she's bi or gone gay. If she says yea, tell your girlfriend to distance herself 🤣

[Seinna]

Cheating is really up to an individual and I think as young adults guys are more likely to cheat because girls tend to be more idealistic and obsessed with their guys while guys are often only in it for the V. Later in life some people will do it but the vast majority of both genders will not. If you normally wouldn't worry about it then I wouldn't this time... but if all your partner needs is an opportunity then she's not a good partner anyways, right? You're right though it might not be the best idea if you're going through some problems in a relationship... even if just because she's going to most likely talk about it with some people that maybe you wouldn't want to know your business.

[nice-girl]

I don't go on weekends with friends. I think that people who are married and in serious relationships shouldn't.
Even if I went, I have no interested in one night stands and this kind of things.
If my partner told me to not go especially, I wouldn't.
If he went on weekends with his friends, I would think the worst.

[Finchie40]

Then you would be the girl for me honestly , cuz I feel the same way , but what can I really do about it? , I know I can’t force her to feel like I do and see things the way I do, and yes I see her point of view to a certain extent , that without trust for each other then what do we really have? My thing is I didn’t commit into a relationship to experience things separately , if I was planning a trip I always include my partner like we are a package deal but she doesn’t really include me which I get upset about , so I am just trying to let it go and not think of the worstt even though it’s hard for me to accept considering I was burned before with past relationships with trusting a girl , to find out after the fact they were up to no good. So I feel like I am walking Down this path again , while focusing on myself and preparing for whatever occurs, seems like how my life has been taking me , the thing is , if she cheats or does something to destroy our relationship then so be it, I will be hurt and sad but all I can do is move forward and realize that’s something
She has to live with knowing she was a selfish piece of shit , also she is also pushing me to go this coming weekend skiing with my brother and his friends for a guys weekend so I am going , even though I am not much of a skier I figured I my as well enjoy myself if she is already planning to enjoy herself without me. The thing that bothers me most is that she is planning a couples spa getaway with this girl at some fancy resort just the 2 of them which seems awkward to me considering she has never planned a trip with me like that and the fact that she is going to do that with this girl is kind of not sitting so well with me , the other girl is married with 2 kids but I know her relationship with her husband isn’t the greatest but the funny thing is he is Going with me skiing this weekend. and I asked him how he felt about his wife going with my girlfriend and he said who cares let her go?

[Finchie40]

It also crossed my mind is if dyke shit is going to occur , cuz the way her and this other girl are acting like these best friends after a short period of time and calling and Texting each other every day is kind of weird to me , so if she ends up fooling around with this married women that is still cheating to me and I will end
It , I am so frustrated about this that part of me wants to hook up with a
Girl this weekend just to say fuck it all , but I know that’s not going
To solve anything

[sunflower00]

I can 100% honestly say that me and my friends would never be unfaithful or flirt with other guys or get up to no good if we were to go away on a trip! Or in any situation! Try not to worry too much, most people both men and women wouldn’t do any of that 😊

[BellaM]

Do you remember campfire I told you long ago?

[Finchie40]

Were you in a relationship at the time

[BellaM]

Not in relationship

[Agape93]

Yeap