My children’s father has struggled with addiction for a long time, the damage it causes to me and children has been very difficult to live with at times, I feel by me staying I’ve almost been his kind of savior aside everything he’s put me through, I have been fighting so hard to be rehoused for seven months now & I am almost upon being offered a house, after I really terrible year previously I knew this in what I had to do, but I feel as though he’s getting in my head again that things will improve he said if is how him more affection and that I want him, his addictions wouldn’t be so bad. Last night when I was ready for bed, actually in bed he said to me, I need you to come and tell me what I need to hear so I can pick myself up off the floor, he says I’ve been acting like I don’t care about the relationship etc, I’ve been in this relationship for 14 years, and his addictions have been awful two years prior, I am getting older and tired and I feel the relationship is ok for a while then goes back to being chaotic again, he always finds ways to make me feel sorry for him like my feelings etc are irrelevant, I am tired & I am miserable. If you guys has a chance to make your lives better without a drug addicted partner weather he be your children’s father or not would you take it, or continue waiting in the hope of losing everything
2 mo
Would you leave your drug addicted partner?
