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Search Results: asking for a first date
Are these red flags?
a few moments that had me look at him differently ….. my current boyfriend -we were a few dates in and every time, I went to the bathroom he would go through my phone. We were not even in a relationship yet. And I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he being out of line?
So I worked with a guy who is new to my city and did not know English too well either. I felt sorry for him so I befriended him. I am in a relationship so I was only ever friendly with him. I met him for coffee after work...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I bring this up on first date?
I’m dating my ex boyfriend friend in a couple of days. My ex and I were a few months together and it didn’t end so well since he was hurt. It was a couple of years ago. Should I bring it up on the date? They’re playing in...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you think of his behaviour?
So i worked with a guy who was new in my city and I felt pity for him as he did not know anyone and his English is not brilliant either so I was friendly with him in work and I met him for coffee after work one day. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think he is behaving in an inapropiate way?
I worked with a guy who was new in my city and I felt pity for him as he did not know anyone and his English is not brilliant either so I was friendly with him in work and I met him for coffee after work one day. I have a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he avoiding me? Can you recover from being too forward?
I was talking to a guy pretty regularly for about a month. We were talking every day and things were going well. And just to note- 90% of the time, he would call/text first. We finally went on a date (went very...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would someone block you and a few days later unblock you despite no arguments?
I became very close to a guy. We dated unofficially. He had a lot of personal issues and he opened up to me about them. We could literally talk about anything. He introduced me to his daughter as I was a good influence on...
Anonymous
(36-45) What are some reasons why a guy might ghost a woman?
I've been on 2 first dates. They weren't perfect but they weren't awful either. On date 1 the guy walked me to my car and carried my food for me, hugged me, and later texted how amazing of a woman I was. I reciprocated...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Dating guys from dating sites?
ugh. major eye roll. i have never been so damn bored in my entire life. shit date after shit date. well, i've only been on 3 dates in my entire life and only dated 3 guys so far. i was hoping it would progress, we would...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to discuss communication between dates?
I’ve been on 3 dates with this guy and the dates have gone extremely well. I am 36 with a child and he’s 27. The last date we had he asked me what I was looking for and I said a relationship but wanted to take it slow....
Lilphil123
Xper 5 Age: 40 Girls, Friends first or no?
Ladies if a guy has interest in you, and this is the early stages of you knowing him, would you rather he be forward and direct asking you out? Him really saying he would like to get to know you better, date you. Or would...
BigTimer
Xper 6 Age: 36 Why would he block and then unblock me?
I became very close to a guy. We dated unofficially. He had a lot of personal issues and he opened up to me about them. We could literally talk about anything. He introduced me to his daughter as I was a good influence on...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is etiquette for following up on a planned date?
So on Monday, my eharmony match and I agreed to a date on Saturday. I kept a low profile since then, I messaged her this morning to say hi, first time since Monday. Hadn’t heard back yet, I’d like to know if we are still...
JRise25
Xper 6 Age: 38 Should I (22) dm my boyfriend (24) ex?
So long story short my (22) current boyfriend (24) of 3 years has had a very odd relationship with his ex. They've only dated briefly for 8 months and stayed friends after they broke up. For the first 3 months we were...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I get my friends with benefits to leave me alone?
I wanted a relationship with this guy. Known him for 9 months now. We were basically friends with benefits because all we ever did was text/call/facetime and every time we met up it was sex. He made it seem like we were...
Anonymous
(25-29) 3 dates and ghosted?
Hi there! I really need some advice because I'm completely confused. I met this girl online two months ago. I'm 24 and she's 20. She's very very shy, introverted and she suffers from social anxiety. I really liked...
confusedguy2498
Xper 2 Age: 28 Is it rude to say "I don't want to waste my time" when going on a first date?
A guy I met on tinder asked me what I'm looking for, I told him basically I'm going with the flow, be responded "same but I don't want to waste my time". We're going on a date tonight, first time meeting him. Obviously,...
7barbieringz
Xper 5 Age: 30 Girl wouldn't sleep with me?
In December, I went on a date with this girl I had watching for a few months now. She's pretty and I was attracted to her. She came over and made the first move. Sent her number in 20 mine after our first formal...
Anonymous
(25-29) How much notice would you give if you were going to cancel a FIRST date?
I had a date last night, spent a decent amount of time getting ready, and drove to the place to meet up. Once I got there, I checked my phone and had a text exactly one hour before our date from him, saying something came...
Jasmine-Darkfire
Xper 4 Age: 24 I need advice. What am I doing wrong?
Ok to start off I am an 19 year old girl. I just started going to college. I started two weeks ago and made quite a few friends already. And already three of my guy friends have asked me out/ confessed to me. I’ve known...
Anonymous
(25-29) 