Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Search Results: having sex for the first time
How to handle a partner who has serious trust issues and falsely accuses you of things?
My partner falsely accused me yesterday of having sex with someone when I haven’t given her the reason too and again last night she accused me of having sex with someone when I was sleep and missed her call. She says I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do guys ever regret leaving somebody they never dated?
I've tried to date somebody who is a bit self-destructive on himself, including my own. We only dated for a month. I was very supportive. He's a recovering drug addict. His reassurance was so much for me to handle. He...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are you attracted to skinny guys like this or is it a turn off?
My girlfriend and I are going to be having sex for the first time soon and I'm very insecure because I have a thin frame like the pic (that's not me). I'm sure she already knows that, but she's never seen me shirtless and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Stay and commit (and be there for each other, but risk a poor sex life), or go and break her (and my) heart (lose her, but have more freedom)?
Me [37M] is close to signing a deal to buy a house with her [35F] - been together for ca. 4 years now. Afraid of this commitment. Would be paying it off for 20yrs. We care about each other and enjoy each other's company,...
travelling_bill
Xper 3 Age: 41 Can a relationship work if there is no sex?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years now, a year and a half ago I got very sick and ended out needing Chemo which obviously put a big damper on my ability to be sexually active with my boyfriend, while I...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"
One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....
u Is "scientific cisnormitivism" the 21st century version of "scientific racism"?
OK, during the Victorian Era with the dawn of the age of reason, religion could no longer be used as a justification (arguing that black people were the children of Kane) for racist policies. Instead, they turned to...
Ad_Quid_Orator
Guru Age: 36 Do I need therapy?
Let's be real. This is something I might laugh at myself over. Due to the fact that I tried to date a narcissist. Just for 2 months... and I sit back sometimes, asking if I need therapy. People tend to throw narcissist...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he not like me that much?
I started dating this guy en January, and at first everything was great. He was super loving, he was always hugging me and kissing me. When we were watching movies he would cuddle with me and he was extremely nice. Now...
Anonymous
(30-35) My girlfriend of 3 years went out with guys from Tinder, what should I do?
Me and My girlfriend of 3 Years have been apart because of Covid, we haven't seen each other since early 2020. I have been supporting my girlfriend financially, paying her rent and life, she isn't working at this moment....
Anonymous
(30-35) He cheated and lied to me should I give him another chance?
So about a week and a half ago my boyfriend and I where chilling on the sofa watching tv. I needed to go get something from my room so I went. I saw his phone just chilling there so I decided to look. I saw that he said...
Anonymous
(25-29) Crumbled Illusions:Dating Economics in the Contemporary Period
The Media and Expectations Those who grew up watching the television and movies of our time came into the dating world with a set of expectations formed by the culture that surrounded us in our formative years. As...
Anonymous
(25-29) 'Dumped' by dismissive-avoidant affair partner (AP) after 1.5 months. How do I heal and move on?
Long time lurker, but first time poster. 37M married for 7 years - no kids. Met the AP (35F) on OkC 2 months ago. We hit it off & things moved fast - we were meeting 1-3 times/week. My wife didn't suspect anything...
virusbkk
Xper 3 Age: 42 Guy vanished on me for a month and now won’t leave me alone. Should I give him another chance or will he just do it again?
A couple months ago I gave this guy my number at a store who I had seen a couple times. He asked me out on a date right away, we went out and had a nice night. Continued messaging. A few nights later he asked me over to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend isn’t satisfied in bed?
I caught my boyfriend texting his ex girlfriend. They broke up around 3.5 years ago. After begging him to tell me why he was texting her sweet nothings, he told me that she’s better in bed than I am. When I asked him if...
Anonymous
(25-29) Here's What I Like About Men, Part II
I like when you are... So there's a lot of negativity in the world, a lot of things to feel negative about. It's legit, I know. There are some topics I want to tackle, and eventually will; I've got half-written...
Why did he change his mind?
I've been talking with this guy for some months now. We met today for the first time. All this time we have been talking as friends and have also said that when we meet, we will have sex. At the beginning I was fine with...
Anonymous
(30-35) My girlfriend doesn’t want to ever come to my house again what should I do?
I’m 21 and she’s 18 and when she came over my house the first time, I introduced her to my father and my mother was at work at the time. We were in my bedroom and I initiated things and we were having sex when my dad...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong to date multiple people if none of the relationships are official?
I've recently started dating on OkCupid and I'm talking to 18 different women. This is the first time I've ever tried dating (I'm 24 by the way) and I honestly don't know what I'm doing. I just found a bunch of women that...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
My co-worker and I kissed and now he’s acting strange?
I work with this guy and we started smoking after work, having deep convos which he always initiated. So, I casually texted him that we should catch and he responded by asking me out for tacos and we made plans for...
Bets_
Xper 3 Age: 29 