Search Results: asking for a first date

Always text first but replies?

I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month now. We go on dates and stuff but lately I’m always the one initiating conversation. The conversations are still the same as they’ve always been, just that I've been the one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm in love with a married man, what should I do?

It all happened a year ago, I used to know him as he's my ex work mate, but we barely talked, out of a sudden we started talking after all these years and we were like talking and chatting daily until he invited me over,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy wouldn't talk about?

I went on a date with a guy who is a research student. I'm not sure if these are red flags hence asking I'm brown and he said he likes summer as we are a bit more brown (bes porcelain white himself). I ve also noticed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did you lose attraction for your ex?

So I'm having an issue here. Not asking for a lecture on how bad dating an ex is, I know that already. The thing is I've been in a relationship with a woman that pretty much "stole me" from my previous girl. It...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he acting like this after our first date?

A bit of context, we met in person in the gym then started messaging daily, usually him messaging first multiple times a day and even phone calls etc. He asked me for a date we went on one and it’s lasted just over two...

Anonymous

(18-24)

For all the broken home kids and people, can you love someone even after all the things you been through?

You see I'm a brokenhome kid, at first I understand my parents strictly education and over protectiveness. Cuz they don't want me to become whore who sleeping around and pregnant out of wedlock. So they pub me in a bird...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If there is a silence in a date where your date is staring at you do they want to kiss you?

I went on a first date with someone I recently met. He was sitting next to me and we had a great conversation. However then there was a silence of about a min which felt very long as we stared into each other’s eyes. It...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I deserve to be loved?

I’m 26 and I’ve been with my bd for 11yrs. The first 2years he didn’t spend any time with me. He was hanging out with his friends more and cheating on me. But I still stayed bc we were having a baby together and we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he a liar or am I not ready to be in a relationship? Aries man. Pisces woman?

Long post I recently met a guy on a bumble. He was a great listener, funny, and attentive. He suggested meeting up, and was quite persistent about meeting earlier than the date I initially suggested, but his suggestions...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

So for context we are both college students with the exception that we have completely different lives. My boyfriend has parents who pay and support his education, meaning he doesn’t have to work and can only focus on his...

Didlydooper

Xper 4 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer

This shortened list is hailing from "Thought Catalog." So what do you want to know? 1. After thousands of years, why haven’t you realized that we don’t pick up on subtle hints? Blame it on society! Yes! Women...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Where Should I Bring This Girl Too On A Date?

Hello, I'm 19 years old and I have been currently talking to this girl. I slid in her DMs 3 weeks ago and we have been talking. I was thinking about asking her out and today, I asked what's her favorite food and she said...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Hello, I'm 19 years old and I have been currently talking to this girl. I slid in her DMs 3 weeks ago and we have been talking. I was thinking about asking her out and today, I asked

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Have you ever had a friend become an asshole once they start dating someone?

I have a friend that just got into a relationship. Actually he was dating another girl before this as well. I've been his friend for 18 years, and I usually don't have a problem with him at all. We went to the same...

OlderThanILook

Xper 7 Age: 29

Marriage & Weddings

My friend is having regrets about marrying his wife and is thinking he should've married someone else. What can I say to encourage him?

I have a friend that's like an older brother to me. He got married to his wife 4 years ago. They met at a church conference in 2016. At that same conference, he met another woman that he liked first. He exchanged numbers...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he constantly messaging me after I told him I didn’t want to date him?

Back in October I went out on a date with this guy I met on a dating site. We were texting back and forth for some time before I decided we should meet up. I remember when I met him for the first time, I felt really...

Alici2939

Xper 2 Age: 31

Why does this guy keep messaging me even though I said I’m not interested?

I went out on a date with this guy I met on a dating site. We were texting back and forth for some time before I decided we should meet up. I remember when I met him for the first time, I felt really disappointed because...

TaA2949

Xper 2 Age: 32

Why does this guy keep messaging me even though I’ve told him I’m not interested?

TaA2949

Xper 2 Age: 32

What am I doing wrong that I got so far and can set a date but never goes through and still hasn't been able to get a new boyfriend still?

I am doing anything wrong after the date seem to get canlded for one reason and then they some men did friendzone me and i rejected the friend and said I am not instersted in being friend. the other one guy didn't really...

Anonymous

(25-29)