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I recently met a guy on a bumble. He was a great listener, funny, and attentive. He suggested meeting up, and was quite persistent about meeting earlier than the date I initially suggested, but his suggestions centred around his home. His first suggestion was for him to cook for me at his home, and his second was for us to both work from home together at his. Initially I wasn’t completely comfortable with meeting him for the first time at his home. I was also quite busy, and so he agreed to meet near where I live to put a face to the name. This day went well.
Bear in mind this is someone who has been very vocal about wanting a serious relationship, and preferring to be abstinent due to his previous relationship (where he was abstinent for 2 years and benefited from a closer bond to the person. Notably it was his exes idea due to religious beliefs). I was surprised that he was quite touchy feely, and he initiated a kiss. Time has moved forward and we’ve continued to have engaging conversations. He invited me to his house and said he’d prepare a meal. He confirmed that there would be nothing sexual but he’d cook a meal and he’d show me his space. So I agreed (maybe stupidly).
It went from cuddles to kisses, to asking to massage me. Kissing turned into something more than I wanted, and when I asked him to stop, he didn’t stop straight away. I then said I wanted to go home. He drove me home.
He said he liked me and it wasn’t about sex. I felt torn because I enjoyed everything he did up until that point. After this happened, he still initiates contact and wants to meet. He wants me to go to his home in each scenario. We had a conversation about this in which I mentioned experiences, and he mentioned quality time and getting to know each other organically. Sexual references have been made even when I made casual activity suggestions. I’m just not sure if he’s really just wanting sex or if I’m overly looking into everything he says because of what happened.
I recently met a guy on a bumble. He was a great listener, funny, and attentive. He suggested meeting up, and was quite persistent about meeting earlier than the date I initially suggested, but his suggestions centred around his home. His first suggestion was for him to cook for me at his home, and his second was for us to both work from home together at his. Initially I wasn’t completely comfortable with meeting him for the first time at his home. I was also quite busy, and so he agreed to meet near where I live to put a face to the name. This day went well.
Bear in mind this is someone who has been very vocal about wanting a serious relationship, and preferring to be abstinent due to his previous relationship (where he was abstinent for 2 years and benefited from a closer bond to the person. Notably it was his exes idea due to religious beliefs). I was surprised that he was quite touchy feely, and he initiated a kiss. Time has moved forward and we’ve continued to have engaging conversations. He invited me to his house and said he’d prepare a meal. He confirmed that there would be nothing sexual but he’d cook a meal and he’d show me his space. So I agreed (maybe stupidly).
It went from cuddles to kisses, to asking to massage me. Kissing turned into something more than I wanted, and when I asked him to stop, he didn’t stop straight away. I then said I wanted to go home. He drove me home.
He said he liked me and it wasn’t about sex. I felt torn because I enjoyed everything he did up until that point. After this happened, he still initiates contact and wants to meet. He wants me to go to his home in each scenario. We had a conversation about this in which I mentioned experiences, and he mentioned quality time and getting to know each other organically. Sexual references have been made even when I made casual activity suggestions. I’m just not sure if he’s really just wanting sex or if I’m overly looking into everything he says because of what happened.
