Why would he hate when I don’t respond to his text?

[Anonymous]

So this guy doesn’t respond to me for days and I send him multiple texts. He only calls when he wants me to come over.

last week, I was texting him for 8 days and he wasn’t responding. On the next day he calls and invites me over. I agreed to come over but as I’m getting ready he blows my phone up with several phone calls. (Those calls are from him wondering if I’m still coming over). I even told him I had to get ready but he just wants me to come over with what I already have on. I don’t answer the phone while I’m driving and he calls me several times then. I don’t answer and he gets mad at and sends me a text like “why lie like that?” Or “I knew you weren’t coming over liar”

This is his third time doing that.

[ChiTown33]

People are funny like that. I had a woman on this site I asked a question. Since this isn't a chat she didn't respond right away so no big deal. I go to sleep but the next day I pop on and she had sent me a dm with the answer to my question. so I read it and think nothing more. But then we're both on that day and se responds to my my post saying "you didn't respond to my dm". So I said "oh, I didn't know you wanted me to". " I asked a question, you responded, I thought that was the end of it". So I messaged her again thinking she wanted to talk. And then she just ignored me from there on.🤔🤣

I guess the point I'm making is everyone sees what they see. And if you don't verbally communicate your expectations with someone you really don't have a right to be upset when they don't respond the way you want them to.

I'm not going to get upset or beat myself up about somebody else's perceived slight against them.

[Wise4myage]

Stop wasting time on this guy, he's clearly not interested in you.

[xutumx]

Sounds like he wants you for sex. If a guy likes you, you’ll know it he won’t not text you for 8 days and only message you to come over. But it’s not all on him, you are choosing the wrong dude to give your time too

[Danny_dan92]

What a fucken mess