I don't think this is too uncommon when people vent to their friends. it happens with women too. I had a friend who vented about her husband. I didn't realize but it started to affect how I treated him. I was at their house one time and he said something like go get that to his wife and I said do it yourself or something. He looked at me and basically asked why I was treating him that way and then she said something. I got thrown under the bus by my then female friend. What she had been telling affected how I perceived him.
Your boyfriend can either find a therapist to talk to instead of his friends or he can tell his friends not to treat you poorly or maybe your relationship is winding down. Maybe the two of you aren't a good fit right now.. Go see a therapist and see if there is something you could be doing different.
Also, who men surround themselves can be negative or positive. A guy's friend can be the ones who give him good advice and if the guy is wrong they will tell him hey dude you are being stupid. The other type of friends will say hey dude why do you put up with that woman and you are too good for her no matter if the guy is right or wrong. A man's friend circle is a very big part of his life.
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This is partly his fault for being immature about it and partly yours for awful things you said.
Its a 2 year relationship. And tbh, his friends reaction sort of gives the impression that it was not the first time. Maybe you have had some small small issues here and there that they didn't like. And when this happened, they were like "there it is. The moment we all dreaded will come. She is showing her true colors".
And you may know then for 2 years, they know their friend longer. And it's same as in family, not all of his family members are gonna adore you. But you thinking that he is expendable enough to just leave because his friends don't approve of you is alarming.
I won't wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with me as much as I wanna be with them. Your current state of mind says something opposite.
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