The family and friends were good to me at first. Then some time ago i felt like his little sister was taking advantage of me being nice. She was really disrespectful towards everyone and was always acting high and mighty. she is really stubborn and proud. everyone in the family knows her and agrees, but no one wanted to tell her. so i took the courage to tell her. and i told her maybe in a bit harsh way, but i was straight forward about it. she did not like it. afterwords my boyfriend was a bit sad because of the situation because his sister made it bigger than it was. she tried to badmouth about me and his relationship, which she know nothing about, and say lies to every one of his friends we knew and just made me feel like i was in high school again. i sent her a long message and told her sorry that i brought it up in such a harsh way and it was not meant to be something bad, because it wasn't. i just wanted her to know how everyone felt, including me. she did not accept it and was very unpleasant on the message she wrote back. after moths, my boyfriend asked me to talk to her, just because of him, and i did, because i love him. and then one of his freinds (sister of his best friend), talked shit about me, without knowing the situation, and told my boyfriend that i was a bad person and i was a snake or something. he did not like it. fast forward. me and the little sister is ok. but the other girl is still talking shit, and no one is telling her to stop. even his best friend that was really nice to me, started to be disrespectful. and I've already talked to my boyfriend about it and told him that it is not alright, but it is still ongoing. i do not know what to do in this situation. i dont want my boyfriend to be with people like that. they are very gossipy people and doesn't ever say hi to me in family gatherings. his mom and dad have never had a problem with me. these friends are childhood friends, but i feel so bad, like everyday, what do i do?
My boyfriend friends hate me?
