This has been on my mind recently and just looking for an outside opinion. (Also not looking to cheat on my boyfriend, curious how others would view this situation). I met my boyfriends friend early in our relationship and have only hung out a handful of times, we don’t talk or communicate other than through my boyfriend. Upon first meeting him I thought he was quite flirty, which i didn’t think was out of the ordinary. I then came to learn he has been single for a very long time due to his cynical and antisocial behavior, or at least that’s what my boyfriend says. I thought that was odd cause he didn’t seem that way when I met him. Then after hanging out with him one night my boyfriend came home and said “I don’t know what you did or said but **** really likes you.” This struck both of us as out of character for him, but again I didn’t think much of it- im his best friends girl, I’d hope he liked me as a person, but apparently he’s hated all my boyfriends exs. When we became friends on Ig he went back and liked one of my posts that were all selfies from over a year prior (from before I was dating my boyfriend). And now he watches my IG stories within minutes of posting them, every time. I know I could be reading into this, and if any of these incidences happened by themselves I wouldn’t be wondering.. but what do you guys think? Is he just being friendly or is this something you would do if you were hitting on a girl?
It sounds like you are in a very difficult and potential disastrous situation. Any guy who will flirt with you while you are with his friend is not one to be trusted. My Mom told me long ago to remember this about women. “If she does it for you then she will do it to you. Where there is a spark there’s 🔥. If you choose to be involved in that, get out before the building crashes in on you.
Yiu get involved with that guy and he will do same thing to you while you’re dating. And your Ex will lmao 🤣
Be safe and happy in new year.
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It’s really hard to say. Unfortunately I can’t read minds and all we can do is make a educated guess.
I would say if he has any feelings he better keep it to himself
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