Is my guy friend into me?

[Horseluvrrr]

Hi y'all! so I have this class w my friend, we met in another science course a few years ago didn't talk for a few years then he hit me up saying hey we have this online class together and then he started FaceTiming me to study together. When we met I had a boyfriend then he had a girlfriend and he never used to FaceTime me when we had this tough Chem class together a few years back it would just be we would text here and there but he always FaceTimes me to study but we don’t end up studying we end up talking about literally everything else for hours. At one point he brought up his girlfriend and I thought nothing of it like people can have friends of other genders however Monday for example we FaceTimed and he called me like always and I would try to get us on track and he was like “it’s fine we have until Wednesday to study for the quiz” and then I told him I dropped the class yesterday cus I also work and I need an A so I’m taking it in the summer he was super upset I dropped and was like “ok well just study with me” but again today we would talk about everything else and I can’t help but feel like he’s making excuses to talk to me... and then mentions his girlfriend cus he feels guilty. I may be reading way into it and found it innocent at first but personally if I had a boyfriend and he FaceTimed a girl for hours especially if they didn’t actually even study at all I’d be mad. And two of my friends have said he’s probably making excuses to talk to me and I don’t want to call him out for having a girlfriend and look stupid and accusatory if he’s not trying to flirt with me but I don't know I want to know what you guys think and if he is flirting what you would say the next time he wants to FaceTime like hey maybe your girlfriend wouldn’t like that or something I don't know I’m not trying to get at a guy who’s taken

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I noticed on the facetime call too he was stretching with his arms behind his neck and I noticed how big his muscles were and was smiling at me the entire time and he has called me "bruh" before but I know couples who do this or dude kinda jokingly and I also thought maybe he feels guilty about having a girlfriend and facetiming me under the pretense of school

[chriscdi]

i maybe he is into you, careful tho, usually when a guy is willing to move on another girl while he is taken, isn't a good sign

[Horseluvrrr]

totally. he hasn't said anything sexual or forward cus I would have called him out and cut it off since he is a taken man but if I were the girl I would be PISSED if my man was facetiming another girl several times a week then getting distracted by her. He also kept mentioning this food place he said him and his girlfriend went to to get cookies and say that he is going after the zoom class, almost made me feel like he was hoping to bump into me there?

[chriscdi]

sounds like a small piece of him was hoping you went over there, either ways my statement stands missy

[Horseluvrrr]

tehe understood, as much as I think he's hot if he is indeed interested or attracted in any way that is super shady and not a loyal guy :/ the more I think about how he's way too eager to call me all the time I feel sketched out like if we dated he'd do the same thing with another girl "friend" he thinks is hot. why can't people either just be fully loyal and dedicated to their person or stay single and flirt with who they want lol.

[chriscdi]

cause its easier to be unloyal than it is to be loyal, i believe that if someone can't stay dedicated to a relationship then they shouldn't be in a relationship, simple as that, either ways just be cautious and stay on your Ps and Qs

[Avicenna]

Yeah, sounds like he is

[Horseluvrrr]

He also kept mentioning this food place he said him and his girlfriend went to to get cookies and said a few times that he is going after the zoom class ends, almost made me feel like he was hoping to bump into me there?

[harry7825]

Yes of course he's into you

[Horseluvrrr]

He also kept mentioning this food place he said him and his girlfriend went to to get cookies and said a few times that he is going after the zoom class ends, almost made me feel like he was hoping to bump into me there?

[harry7825]

Sounds good

[harry7825]

Maybe you should

[Luckycharms12]

For course he is

[Horseluvrrr]

He also kept mentioning this food place he said him and his girlfriend went to to get cookies and said a few times that he is going after the zoom class ends, almost made me feel like he was hoping to bump into me there?

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe or its just nice and he thought you like it. Probably in to you tho you look cute in your picture

[Horseluvrrr]

hehe thanks! I wasn't sure and I dont want to flirt with him at ALL if he has girlfriend maybe if he was single and asked me out so I think ill just be normal and as long as he doesn't hit on me while he's with her i won't call him out?

[Luckycharms12]

He going to hit on you I image most guys do

[DavidFox]

Reported

[Sia_nee]

Maybe