Here's where it "went down". I called and wished him a happy new year (left a voicemail) and didn't hear anything from him. Worried, I texted him last night and he immediately called me. He was playing a video game with his guy friends, and stepped out to talk to me. We had the friendship talk. It turns out I am his only friend that is a girl that he's really EVER HAD and who he goes out and does things with, and he is not ready to have a relationship. He also said he's never had a girlfriend. He asked me "I feel like you are really into me?" I reciprocated the question back to him because it seems like he feels the same way, but since he's never had a girlfriend that he may not know what to do? He kept calling himself a loser, and a lost puppy, and I told him to stop, that he didn't need to act that way. We agreed to be friends and that we're both not ready to be in a relationship, and that we're going to let whatever happen. But, I honestly feel like he likes me. I feel like when he's ready to go to the next step, then he will come around.. does any of this make since to all who are reading this? I'm going to see him when classes start back up Tuesday and fall back into routine. Do you think he feels like he hurt my feelings.. he kept asking, "Are you ok?" I said, "We are two mature adults, and I felt like this conversation was coming." I told him I would never stop being friends with him just because he didn't want a relationship. He's almost 23 by the way. I just don't want things to be awkward.
Thanks, everyone.
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