Why do all guys I meet just a disappointment?

[TheNameDoesntMatter]

i hate ranting but I will do so now guys in my generation are so stressing and if I give an ugly guy a chance their so full of themselves they have this huge ass ego (last interest I had) sometimes I wonder if they are all the same cause what causes their ego is desperate girls like me wanting to have a boyfriend I had this situation where I liked a guy and he said he wasn't ready to commit to a relationship although I never directly told him that I liked him he meet this girl from a friend of a friend and she was so desperate sending him love letters every damn day and trust me when i say this I DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL I SAW IN THAT GUY he called her ugly behind her back and my friend told her she cried but guess what she continued I stopped talking to him and magically after a day I post something shady (both of them followed me at the time) the day after guess my friend told me they were now together and kissed her on the neck. I did like some anonymous messages shit out of pure boredom and a message said "hello I always knew that you liked me" and I responded used not if you were a damn disappointment and he liked the response and who the hell does that then i figured out his "girlfriend" blocked me and I well I am not part of a circus I blocked the guy he freaking had ticks and was nervous around me but no who was left ridiculed me and knowing he didn't have the balls to even say it right in my face. And not only him every guy I meet the maximum we can get is like eachother mutually then nothing. I am sorry if im being over dramatic but if you are here to judge just ignore the overall post

[ProbablyClueless]

It's partially because of your age and it's partially because dating is crappy for everyone just in general.

There are definitely things you can do to improve your options, like trying to meet people at special interest clubs, but the reality is that people are people, no matter where you go.

If you want to be the kind of lady who dates a man who has a lot going on on, you have to be the kind of lady who can keep up with men like that. And that means being a lady with a lot going on.

[inhua]

the same can be said about guys meeting girls

if you haven't discovered already, the dating market is currently a shitshow where the more society preaches for gender equality, the more that gender differences reveal itself and sometimes in nasty ways. some people have a hard time accepting this truth about the world

it'll be at it's worst in high school, slightly better in college and not much improvement after that

[inhua]

why were you with a guy you thought was ugly guy in the first place?

[TheNameDoesntMatter]

i just thought he was different if that sounds stupid, I dont really care about looks but I found something in him that I liked though I got disappointed since I realised his personality and I even dare himself is missing something that he's trying to fill with his stupid jokes and thinking he can get any girl by the way thank you for responding I really need some orientation

[inhua]

thing is, no guy wants to be with a girl who she thinks is ugly. if he was able to feel that, it makes sense why he would act that way. in his mind, if his girlfriend doesn't find him attractive, he's going to draw as much attention as possible from other girls which is why his ego is through the roof.

even for "ugly" guys they can use the principle of pre-selection to their benefit e. g. Pete Davidson and since you don't find him attractive, he recognizes the relationship won't last so he's trying to seek it elsewhere

[ronaldo75]

Ugly guys know that when a cute girl gives them a chance it's because she's broken or somehow desperate. That's why they play the ego act. They know it's temporary so they show it off while it lasts.

A big flaw in today's women is you think all men are stupid and dont see through your bullshit. The ugly guy knew what you were doing.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Understand heathens wheather men or women in your case men that aren't born again and have the spirit of God in them to influence them are always going to be a disappointment because the sinful flesh controls them.

We humans are by nature evil, thus we cause each other disappointments and pain.

[OddBeMe]

You’re in a bubble where you’re meeting the same type of guy over and over.