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About a week and half ago I chatted up a much younger girl. She was shy but interested once she warmed up to me. We chatted for a long time. I texted she her the next day but got no response.

I definitely know better than to keep on messaging women when they don’t respond. So I haven’t contacted her since. Haven’t heard from her either. I decided to let 10 days pass and tomorrow I’ll send a simple hello.

Obviously when people don’t message first or respond promptly it’s a bad sign. But I can’t help but wonder if a much younger woman might feel more hesitant to contact an older guy vs a guy her own age despite being interested. Like she expects me to take 100% control of everything. Maybe that’s just wishful thinking.

I am trying to tread carefully here without being boring. We were both upfront and honest about we wanted (a fling on the DL). But I know much younger women change their minds more than wind changes direction. She definitely had me interested.

I met this girl on Reddit. She is beautiful and never had a boyfriend before. She is also a virgin and 25 years old. She is perfect to me and what I was looking for.

We hit it off and had some good conversations. She is a kindergarten teacher. She has been working hard on her classroom this past week preparing it for the school year.

I have noticed these past days, she has barely messaged me. Although, every time I said good morning, she would reply.

Well today, she didn't respond when I said good morning. Her father was hospitalized yesterday for a suspected stroke. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt knowing her situation.

Although, I am fearing we will become distant to the point it won't work between us.