Search Results: long hair styles

Im wondering if I appear gothic to others because I've been getting a lot of commentary, especially online, about being so. Like, I'll get guys who message me certain things, and I don't really pay attention to labeling myself or describing myself but now I'm wondering how I appear to others. I've got dyed black hair, cut into a short flapper like bob/long shaggy pixie. I always wear winged eyeliner, shadow, pale skin, reddish lips. I listen to punk/post punk/gothic artists of the 80's and 90's and share such songs on Facebook. I have and love my cats. I usually dress in all black and with my black boots. I have long pointed fingernails. I like to take pictures of destructed places, woods, and probably creepier stuff. I love photography and film and especially of the horror genre. I also love gothic pinup style, with latex and leather clothing. But I also love non-gothic stuff as well, so I don't know. Do I give off a gothic vibe if I'm as I how i described?

I ask this because everywhere you go, it appears that women were meant for men. The way that a woman's beauty is glorified and that women are the ones that it is said to be of a successful man. He is said to be successful with a woman and women who are married live 4 years shorter than unmarried but men who are married live 10 years longer than men who aren't married.

The bodies of women are more adorned head to toe at every age. Little girls have hair bows, ribbons and barrettes in her hair but a little boy has nothing in his. A teen girl is protected by her father more than his teen son is. Her lack of sex is heralded while his lack of sex is questioned if he's homosexual.

At high school proms, a girl exposes her crevice area, arms, legs from knees down and sometimes back. Her feet are not covered with socks and her toes and feet are exposed. A boy at a prom is always covered exposing just face and hands. His neck is covered.

Even at church, a female can wear necklaces, bracelets and anklets but a male wearing anklets would be questioned as to his sexuality. Even if he wears bracelets or necklaces, he's considered not masculine by some, even though some necklaces and bracelets are just for men.

A woman losing her hair is far less like than a man losing his hair. If a male wears short shorts, he is considered homosexual. If a woman wears male styled overalls, she's considered cute.