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Like if women want 6ft+ x y and z in a man, do you find they end up finding it.
I personally see them single mostly, in cuckoo land

I personally get great joy ignoring these women IRL and on apps

they say women were not really as complicated as they were before the 1960s when feminists rose into pure existence.

in fact I always hear older men talk about how women were so nice and gentle back then again compared to now so I always wondered, if an incel of today somehow time travels back to these days do you think he will have a chance to start a new life as a non incels?

I'm pretty sure most would probably say yes but then again if women really looked like they did above before the 1960s then I'm pretty they would have high standards and probably not even look at an incel or just any soyboy of today's era.

I was shocked yesterday when my girlfriend expressed that she thought it was weird that I give a gift AND a card for Christmas, birthdays, etc. (I’m not talking about the generic “Happy Holidays From Our Family To Yours” courtesy cards, I’m talking people you’re close with and exchange gifts with.

I was taught to always buy a card to accompany the gift, and that the card and it’s sentiment is more important than the gift. And when receiving a gift, I was raised to read the card first, take in what’s written in it, and thank the giver, before even opening the present (upon doing so, I’d then thank them for the gift).

In her world, cards are just something you give if you’re not exchanging a gift with someone, just an acknowledgement. If you’re giving a gift, an additional card is unnecessary, unless it’s something like cash or a gift card. And she asked me if I had ever noticed her family doesn’t give me cards with my Christmas gifts, and I guess I haven’t, haha.

I’m not offended by it or anything, I just was surprised because I thought my way was standard. And she said the same, and we’re both questioning it now because we both have small families and subsequently small gift-exchanging circles.

So I’m curious what all of you folks think. Do you give a card AND a gift? Or a card OR a gift? I guess I’m primarily concerned with opinions of people from North American countries/cultures that I’d be around, it might be totally different elsewhere, but all opinions are welcome👍