Why do women hate men who hate women that sleep around a lot?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

never understood the logic behind this.

women themselves shame and ridicule other women who sleep around yet is suddenly a blasphemy when men do it. is like are we men not allow to have standards?

whenever they hear a man expressing their contempt against women who sleep around whether its a fair reason these women will jump the gun and call these men incels and claiming that they are just mad because "they can't get laid" and whatever. this also sounds pretty contradicting if you think about it, a man getting shamed because he has standards and doesn't want a woman with high body count and the women with high body counts themselves will shame them.

[molonski2]

I think its because there are massively different attitudes towards body count , no one really wants to be with a SLUT , yet in reality , guys are lorded to some degree when their count is high , many guys dont even give a fck with regard quality..

So naturally these women have distain for the double standard that we all follow , also on body count , guys overstate , women understate , these are the facts.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

most women dont want to be sluts yet a lot of them dont get the attention, validation and most of all the "love" they think they get when they do slutty things like sleeping around. its a viscious cycle if you ask me

[molonski2]

Well , you are NOT incorrect..
They certainly get a massive Buzzzzz by being a SLUT at least for a certain period of time , and sure in the right circumstance Slutty can be fun for sure.

[AnonAndrew]

This isn't true. I really want to be with "sluts." Promiscuous women make much better partners (and also usually are just better people) than other women.

[molonski2]

@AnonAndrew
Well thats nice for you bro , SLUTS are good shorterm , not long-term , but point taken.

[LunaticFringe69]

@AnonAndrew Agreed. Sluts are fun!

[AnonAndrew]

@LunaticFringe69 The best! :)

[PetLover24]

Decent respectable women who have often achieved something with their life beyond sitting on welfare, we don't like these cheap easy women who sleep around either.

In fact these women ruin the entire social culture because due to them, more and more men think women in general are tramps / prostitutes / cheap and easy sex. Because this cheap & easy free prostitute behavior is becoming more and more common instead of women having self respect and a sense of self worth.

And the most annoying thing is they bray like asses about being "feminists" when feminism was AGAINST being seen and used as a sexual object. And they willingly dress and act like someone who has NO value to the world except being an object.

[PetLover24]

And herein's the simplicity of these women.

They are the first to villainize men.

They will blame men left, right and center for leaving them with half a dozen bastard kids god knows who the father is because each's got someone different.
They will blame men for "using" them and whatever other nonsense spouts from their mouths like garbage spouts from the gutter drains of a city.

When reality is, only person to blame is THEMSELVES. If they had standards, had self respect, had a sense of self worth they'd not be used and tossed aside like week old pizza when some guy gets bored.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

It's a case of "I can criticize my own clan, but I will have a blood feud with you if you do."

There are certain topics that guys can't discuss with women as a general topic. Weight, sex (unless together), and the beauty of other women. When she asks you about these topics (she will), it is not a quest for honesty. It is her wanting to know if she still makes you melt into a million pieces and feel like your universe is spinning.

Also, whatever she is wearing she looks good in. That's it and you're welcome.

[MisterWack]

“Why do women hate men who hate women that sleep around a lot?”

So… Why don’t you hate men equally to women who promote women sleeping around? You didn’t have to make this a one gender thing since we know your stance obviously.

[MisterWack]

*I believe in you do whatcha wanna do and that’s all. I don’t have less respect or more respect for having sex with different people, you do you buddy.

[PeachyPie93]

Most promiscuous woman support other promiscuous woman, like being a skank is empowering, which I don't get.. Then they get mad at men because how dare these men with high counts reject them just for acting the way men say they want them to act. Plus the guys are the same as them, so they feel it is double standards..
I personally dislike anyone with a high body count but for me it's easier to forgive a guy for it because men are naturally dumb and think with their dick more than their head.

[Miristheiss]

Have you standards. It doesn't matter if the woman approves of the man's standards or not. She doesn't get a vote on what type of woman he would marry or date long term. If he passes on making a woman his girlfriend or ever marrying her because she's already given away wife level intimacy and wife privileges to a bunch of other men it doesn't matter if she likes it, approves of it or agrees with it. He is free to just move on and say no.

There are plenty of weak, pathetic, simp men with hardly any standards who will flock in to "save" these women and sign up for their leftovers.

[Dongie]

It's because so many females get ruined by special treatment that goes to their head. They enter adolescence with a feeling that there are two classes of human beings. One better than the other. A huge part of this stems from feminists active through left-wing politics.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I find it crazy how they always complain that men only want sex yet will always shame and ridicule incels for their inability to get laid

[Dongie]

Some are just cruel individuals. But I do my best to steer clear of those kind. I find conservative women warm and friendly. Normal, you may say.

[Brokenheartedx]

I think not asking how many partners each have had saves a lot of problems. Someone's past has nothing to do with someone else. A man or woman could sleep with a million people and never get an STD or chance of pregnancy yet a virgin having sex for first time may end up with the STD or pregnant.

U don't define people by how many people they've slept with whether male or female quite frankly it's nobodies business.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

STDs/STIs are only the tip of the iceberg. Any therapist, psychiatrist or psychologist will tell you that people who’ve had truckloads of sex partners in the past are always mentally or emotionally unstable and not relationship material

Having a high body count is a clear sign that person has commitment issues or doesn’t value a relationship.

So therefore, yes! It’s 100% your business and responsibility to learn your date’s or your soon to be s/o sex past in order to avoid getting yourself in a possible toxic relationship

[Brokenheartedx]

Well dont date them go about your business

[Filthy_Immigrant]

And how are you supposed to find out that you should not date them?

[Brokenheartedx]

Don't ask them.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

do you know another way to tell? cause I would love to know

[Brokenheartedx]

Simple don't ask questions that will hurt your fragile ego. For all you know she could have been an abused child or victim of grooming gangs.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Interesting dodge. I asked for an alternative way to identify red flags, and instead, you resort to dismissing people's right to protect themselves from bad relationships. If asking questions about someone's past triggers you, maybe you should evaluate why you're so defensive

[Brokenheartedx]

It seems you are looking for a virgin and you be her only one, it's you dismissing people. it's 2024 not 1090

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Dude your projection is showing. I never once did I mentioned anything about virginity—I’m talking about accountability and compatibility. If it’s 2024, as you so kindly reminded me, then transparency about one’s past should be standard. Instead, you’re dodging the point and trying to deflect by misrepresenting my stance. Are you upset because you think accountability is outdated?

[Brokenheartedx]

No but your boring me. Go hang around a church for a virgin or someone that's deaf

[Filthy_Immigrant]

"Brokenheartedx", you’re projecting again. Your screen name and profile tell a story of someone who’s struggling more with their past than I ever could with mine. I’m not the one bored—I’m amused at how quickly you crumble when faced with accountability. Take care of yourself; those eyes say more than your words ever could, assuming that's you in your pic

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the woman not all women are like this. It’s probably women who sleep around all the time yet want a man whose loyal to her. While she runs around

As for dudes who are hypocrites they’re just as bad. They aren’t getting a virgin if they are having sex with lots of whores. But not all men are that way

[itsannalee]

Because most of those men are just attention seekers. Low value men with too much expectations. It's just like a chihuahua will always be noisy.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I think you are projecting. if anything women who sleep around are the true attention seekers. they hop from penis to penis in order to gain attention and feel validated somehow but what they really are doing it is to feel "loved" but can never analyze that unlike women we men can separate love and lust apart

[itsannalee]

I don’t support women who sleep with multiple or tons of guy. But most men who barking over that in the internet are just attention seekers, and low value.

[Apple1996]

Often times those men are being hypocrites by also having a high body count

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yet you dont hear those men getting by other men around them

[chocolatetwopointo]

@Filthy_Immigrant yh bc they dont care

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@chocolatetwopointo and why do women care in the other hand?

[chocolatetwopointo]

@Filthy_Immigrant bc men care ab womens body counts

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@chocolatetwopointo we must care for good reasons then.

[chocolatetwopointo]

@Filthy_Immigrant but its wrong when a woman doesn't wanna date a man with a high body count?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@chocolatetwopointo who said it was wrong? if anything men with high bodycounts are the ones women gravitate to like ants towards sugar

[ProbablyClueless]

That sort of person has this really weird idea in their heads that men and women are similar enough that they ought to be held to the same standards of behavior.

[pragmatik]

"Why do women hate men who hate women" - Few times have I seen someone give himself away in the title as you did here. Men who hate women are misogynists.

Anyone who hates deserved to be hated.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

1. You completely dodged the question. I asked why women dislike men who criticize promiscuity, and instead of answering, you jumped to calling it ‘hatred.’ Why is discussing standards automatically "misogyny"?

2. women openly shame men for being broke, short, or inexperienced, yet no one calls that ‘misandry.’ Why is it only ‘hatred’ when men express standards?

3. You say ‘anyone who hates deserves to be hated,’ but isn’t that just justifying hatred? If disliking certain behaviors is hate, doesn’t that mean women who reject broke men also hate men?

4. Men are wired to value loyalty and purity in women, just like women are wired to value status and resources in men. Why is one natural preference acceptable while the other is demonized?

[pragmatik]

You have so much hate inside that you cannot stop looking everything in the light of hate. If your post was redacted as "Why do women dislike men who dislike women that sleep around?" I'd have given my opinion.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

You still didn’t answer the question. Instead of addressing the point, you’re fixated on semantics and trying to make this about ‘hate.’ If you actually have an answer, go ahead and share it—otherwise, you’re just dodging again

[sallygal]

I don't know why people care about what grown adults do with their own bodies you talk and bash them then move on the next day who gives af

[SolitarySolace]

Because women thrive on hating men

[CuriousMoonFox]

Because hate breeds hate.

[Fireguy17]

because they never slept with them

[KrakenAttackin]

Because hypocrisy is female.

[Crazzyyworld]

Shady Americans