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I didn't get my first serious girlfriend until I was 29, almost 30. In fact, other than online attempts with girls where they rejected me upon meeting in person or short term dating where nothing transpired from it, I never had an actual girlfriend before that. Luckily and with the grace of God, I am now engaged. It is a huge relief.

This had caused so much grief, stress, and anguish over the years being single with no chance in sight of finding love. Shockingly, I was being looked at as the problem for being so depressed about it. I feel 100% that I was justified to feel this way, considering most humans start exploring romance and sex starting in middle or high school.

I wouldn't advocate for this to be the norm, especially for those who truly desire to have a significant other and a family in their lifetime. I know by the time I turned 29, I was already experiencing erectile dysfunction, libido issues, and low testosterone. Shit, for all I know, I can be infertile at this point. I didn't experience these issues up until recently.

I am recently engaged, so I will say upfront I am very grateful about that and I am not nearly as lonely or stressed as I used to be. I love my fiance dearly.

Although, I just did some reflection and realized I do only have one or two good male friends and have lost many friends throughout the years.

I was wondering if this is normal.

I hate them mostly. Some are cute, one of my grandma’s I loved cause she was caring and didn’t want us to trouble over her. Sweet.

My other grandma a complete nightmare. Faking illness so we stress over her and for attention seeking, thinking the whole world revolves around her and that we have to molly cuddle her. She was two times in hospital, and they found absolutely nothing wrong with her.

She’s never had to pay a bill, lived an easy life yet is such a miserable old hag. Stopping younger people from living their life to cater for her. Some old people live a hard sad life and here she is so spoiled and ungrateful. In my culture we can’t put elderly in a care home it’s seen as abandonment.