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Girls/women are like a classy Jaguar! They can run great, but, can be temperamental a few times a month and need consistent care and maintenance. Mechanic better know what he is doing! They leak fluids and that's normal, just keep them topped off with the right stuff.

Maintenance and garage oil leaks aside, they are fun!!! Take them out around the town let her beauty shine! Get some looks from others envious of her classy charms! Open her up and see that she can really scream! Don't break any rules, but I suggest taking some twisty turns and see how she handles!! :)

Some of them have been banged up out there and might with shallow pocket and depth might be inclined to say... she's totaled! Just cash her in and get another, it's beyond my skill level. Often true... I get that, but realize the damage incurred is not her! She was designed with passion and love! her true self is can lay buried under layers of dust.. mistakes and lies and crap that was never the intent of the designer! It could be surface level or much deeper, but she's still a gem to someone who has the right skills and a keen eye! Don't ever let someone tear down her value because THEY are shallow and don't know her true worth!

Proper rehab and right mechanic, and she goes from trash dump to top pick at the auction!

She should climb up on that pedestal, but take her down and go enjoy! She was made for you, to take you places and give you experiences you can only dream of!
It just takes the right eye to see her full potential and help guide her back to be her best! Sometimes it takes more than one mechanic along the way, but yes, she is precious, is she not?

Ever do or say something so thoughtful you shocked the other person and it changed the relationship?:)

From my life:
I roomed with my brother in college. He always had cereal/milk for breakfast. I loaded the dishwasher that morning. I'd often be a knucklehead and not think about anyone else and run everything. But today, I left 1 bowl and 1 spoon out that morning and left the last of the cereal for him, rather than eating it myself with enough milk! He got up for school and came in as I was heading out and figured he'd been screwed over and let out a sign of grief that he wouldn't have breakfast. When he saw that I had thought about him and did what was...perfect in consideration of him, his expression did a 180!

That little gesture dug deep through preconceived notions of who I was and it changed his view of me.

Since that day, our relationship changed. He had previously been emotionally abusive and demeaning. After, he started saying positive things to other people when he'd previously always would cut me down in front of them! It took years for me to accept positive words from him or anyone, it didn't match the broken record recorded inside!

I learned many years later that I am sensitive to words and empathic and it altered my life in so many ways. No that I've healed, it's like the butterfly coming out of the cocoon!

You can punch a hole through that stuff and get to the heart of the person and change their life with words and deeds if you try!

Words are like swords! They can cut deep. They can also extract a poison arrow from the heart!

So what could you do today, or what could you say that would strike another person in a way they never dreamed of? Go ahead and do it and see what happens?