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I think the answer is a very clear "no" but I have a bias. I am aware of two women who cheated on me, but I have never cheated on anyone. I know how much those experiences hurt me and I can't fathom how someone can love me but, at the same time, inflict such immense pain. The first time it happened, she confessed to me and told me that she loved me. The second time, there was no confession and I only learned about it later, when we were in the process of a divorce. But at the time she was cheating, she was still claiming to love me.

My best guess is that what those women called "love" was not the same thing that I call love. Both of them were somewhat self-centered and I have guessed that their version of love was based upon loving the way that I treated them but not really loving me. I will never know that those two women felt, so I am asking this question in general.

Can someone cheat on their partner while also loving their partner? If so, is it the same love that non-cheaters feel in a relationship. When you answer, you can answer anonymously, but please do indicate whether you have ever cheated or been the victim of cheating, or both.

The language of love is as follows.

Especially on a hot day you might come across a female with a fan, take note because this is a secret code.

Drawing the fan across your face means "I love you".

Carrying in the right hand in front of face "Follow me".

Touching tip with finger "I wish to talk to you".

Dropping the fan is a suggestion to be just friends.

With handle to lips "kiss me".

Carrying in left hand open "Come and talk with me".

Letting it rest on the left cheek "No".

Letting it rest on the right cheek "Yes".

Fanning madly doesn't mean she's madly in love with you, it means she is very hot.

There are many more but these are the ones I'm allowed to put on GAG's without being sanctioned.