Do men keep flirting even when they know a relationship is wrong?

[bia1998]

Me and my immediate superior have something going on. I guess he is attracted to me. And I am over the moon in love with him. Nothing was said, but there are looks, there are visits to my desk after everyone leaves, there are touches (grabbing my hand as he grabs the paper, chest touching my shouldes while he's leaning to teach me something on the computer. That's flirting, right? But since he is the director of the department, this is wrong. A relationship would be wrong. And also he is 27 years older than me. These things have been going on for over a year, so either he is slow or careful or it's just for fun. But wouldn't he avoid flirting since it's never going to happen?

[bowenw]

It does sound like flirting, but he may be holding back because he is a supervisor and doesn't want to jeopardize his job.

[jahaims]

Trash humans to that. You aren't in love. That is lust and or limerence

[jahaims]

do that*

[In_Trance]

Because everyone loves the thrill