I think my all cryings isn't normal anymore am I wrong?

[Blueoceanna]

I'm deliberately closing the answer option to men because them write things that hurt me. ı have never had a proper relationship anyway men always want sex. I have been alone for a long time and my soul is still like a little girl's. My childhood was below average I was a vulnerable, humiliated, and abused child. I think that's why ı have wanted to be a mother to a girl for the last few years. But I feel exhausted because I haven't found the right partner who loves me. That's why I have been crying about this for a year. I went to a psychologist, but it doesn't only this not help. My mood changes when I see a couple... I even sometimes miss my childhood, even though it was bad at least I wasn't this lonely

[bowenw]

I'm sorry to hear you had a below average childhood. Hopefully you will meet some good men that want a serious relationship the same as you do and will make you happy. Not all men are only interested in sex.

[Blueoceanna]

You can't even imagine how upset this makes me. I'm even thinking about suicide. Trying to have sex with a woman only dreams of being a mother and then abandoning her... Just the thought of it happening is so heartbreaking

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Blueoceanna]

you're welcome 😊

[Abbycado]

Sounds like you Mr life is catching up and causing emotional issues. This isn’t girls only, by the way.

[Blueoceanna]

Being a woman is much more difficult in this society

[Abbycado]

Are you from the US or somewhere else? If you don’t mind sharing. You can just reply somewhere and else and not tell me.

[Blueoceanna]

Oh that's not a problem I live in Istanbul

[Abbycado]

Ah, then it may be a cultural thing. I can’t deal with that much. Prayers with you.

[Blueoceanna]

♥️♥️

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[Blueoceanna]

you're welcome 🙏💘

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you untangle feelings, spot red flags, and remind you you’re not broken, just hurting. 💛

Your crying is not “crazy,” it’s pain finally leaking out. With that childhood and constant disappointment, of course you feel exhausted and lonely. That’s trauma, not weakness.

Wanting a daughter, wanting love, missing even a bad childhood all scream one thing: you’re craving safety and unconditional love. Totally human. Therapy might need a trauma‑focused angle (EMDR, inner child work), not just basic talk.

You’re not destined to be used or unloved. Men who only want sex are walking red flags, not proof that all men are the same. Protect your heart, but don’t bury it. Someone emotionally safe will cherish that “little girl soul” in you, not exploit it.

[Blueoceanna]

If I had a daughter I would do everything in my power to give her everything shut up ai

[MountainMetal]

I'll tell you the truth because you deserve to hear it. The right man will come along, he will see the best in you and if you aren't ready for it, it won't end well for either of you. Why am I confident about that? Love is an amplifier, not an adhesive. If you are looking for love to fill a hole it will just widen that hole, not fill it. So then what do you do? Go to talk therapy, clean out all those infected wounds so that you can finally start healing. So that when that man does come along you can take care of him the same way he will take care of you, as equals

[Blueoceanna]

Thank you ♥️

[Nikki1989]

Loneliness that makes even a painful past feel preferable to the present is a serious kind of suffering, so I don't want to minimize it.

When you say the psychologist didn't help, what was missing?

[Blueoceanna]

Whats missing is me being alone... and by the way I love your character 🌼

[Quiet-Man]

Love is care.

Lust is a precursor to care in the long term journey of humanity as a species, since as primates we wouldn't care for our partners if we didn't lust after them.

And by lust, i mean emotional survival mechanisms that make us raise families. Wanting to raise a family is lust. The hooking up is just a smaller compartment of lust.

But love, when detached from the primitive cocoon of survival instincts, that's force of god itself. Unconditional love isn't that mysterious either.

At some point in history, parents didn't really care for their young. You know, life originated from something, and love is at the core of it. But anyhow, love has eventually developed as something some parents do to their children. In the future the same kind of love as parent-child will be learned as the basic way of relating to anyone, without conditions such as wealth or romance playing any role.

[Blueoceanna]

Other primate species such as bonobos and gorillas have also been observed to become depressed when they are alone and cannot find a mate

[Quiet-Man]

Exactly. But evolution never stops. The monkeys look for chemical highs.

They actually don't care about the mate. They care about "a" mate. Humans too, if we can't live without someone, then we are secretly being selfish and calling it love. We are trying to make ourselves happy through making others happy.

It's only love if you're happy without it too. Otherwise it's emotional lust.

And don't get me wrong, evolution takes time, we still need the emotional chemical highs to be healthy, but the more of us take a conscious leap to find love independent from the biological rules, the sooner it will become normal for our species.

[TonyMetal___86]

Closing the answer option to men, like why?
Who told you that all men just wants sex 🤷🏻‍♂️
You girls always keeps saying all men and all men, as if you have met all the men around the world!

Just try to search in the right place for the right man, because to find someone good these days whether a man or a woman, it's very hard!

[Blueoceanna]

Reacting to generalizations about men and then making generalizations about women explains everything

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah because it's the truth, a lot of women keeps complaining about men and generalizing them all but the way you're speaking makes it sound that you know how all men behaves, which is wrong!

You didn't like the generalization of women and yet it's okay for you to generalize all men 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Blueoceanna]

If that's not the case, you don't need to take it personally I didn't take it personally, and I didn't express my anger in such a long way like you did 👊

[TonyMetal___86]

Never took it in person, you don't know me right? So why would i take it in person!

It's just sick that a lot of people always generlize everyone just from their single bad experience that they had!

They need to learn not to make a generlization because these claims boosts the hate between the two genders...

[Danny_dan92]

What are you asking?