Emotional cheating and physical cheating, which hurts more?

[Pretendingtobesweet]

Emotional cheating hurts more

Physical cheating hurts more

Both

Neither

A total of 56 votes were cast: 19 girls and 37 guys. See detailed results

[OlderAndWiser]

If a girl cheats on me emotionally and a girl cheats in my friend physically, how do you measure the compare the pain we feel? And even if you can make that comparison, in what way does it help? Are you going to tell him who hurts less to just get over it and consider himself lucky that it wasn’t worse?

[KostasKouvalis]

definitely emotional for me. A girl at work became buddies with my enemy and said he's cool, and I told her, "I don't care as long as you still think I'M cooler."😂

I too start feeling guilty/don't like developing an emotional connection with anyone but my best friend.

I do get extremely jealous, maybe it's insecurity, because with me it's like THIS. Don't do something with someone else that you wouldn't do with ME, and if you do, like ME better😂 Though I wouldn't like if she trusts someone else and shares the same sensative stuff or stuff she she didn't even tell me. And vice-versa. So yeah, emotional cheating is worse. Because emotional connections are deeper and special as they often transcend the physical realm. I only want that between US

[gasman70]

you ahve the right to be angry. you have the right to tell her not to do that with someone else. In fact, I think you should put your foot down and tell her you won't have it. You need to tell her that you're not willing to comprimise yourself for her. My wife early on told me that she thought it was hot when I stood up for myself like that. She thought that it was weak and she lost respect for me when i didn't stand up for myself. I think you need to stand up for yourself and put an end to this bullshit and tell her that she isn't going to do this anymore. i know it feels like you're being a caveman but she needs to be reigned in and she wants it.

[texasgirl012]

My boyfriend flirted with my friend who visited from high school, and it really rocked me. My cheating with certain Blacks who have that one thing actually works for him -- me too. The emotions are way more important. Just because he enjoys me doing that with Blacks who have those physical assets doesn't mean I could handle his giving his heart to another girl.

[FreyaRed]

The difference is like you're going to execution and you have a choice heart or head shot. The result is the same.

[AviatorTom]

Both hurt, and it's hard to say one hurts more.

Physical cheating maybe easier to get over.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I’m going to have to say NONE OF THEM because if I’m in a relationship & she happens to cheats I’m better off without her, she’s doing me a favor & she’s someone else’s problem when I find out & we part ways.

In addition I’ll make up a story & tell her I slept with a really good friend of hers & I won’t give her a name, start laughing & walk away.

[gasman70]

that depends on if you're a man or a woman. for a man, physical cheating hurts more. that's due to the connection to reproduction in the brain. For women it's the emotional cheating, because of the bond that is created with the guy for them to put their energy and resources into raising the child with them, that part of reproduction in the brain.

[sage2021]

If someone physically cheated on you of course it's going to hurt you emotionally as well.💔

[sage2021]

Emotional cheating is still cheating only it's online and behind your partners back!

[PeachyPie93]

Tbh i think it depends on the bond you have with your partner..

[aceleon]

physical for me but i guess emotional would be insulting too.

[MrChinaski]

There is no such thing as emotional cheating.

[Finchie40]

They both can hurt equally

[browsingthroughthe]

Ditto

[TonyMetal___1986]

Both hurts but physical might hurt more because you can say that it's done!

[browsingthroughthe]

Tony you're so right 👍🏻

[TonyMetal___1986]

@browsingthroughthe thanks 🙂

[Oldschool1981]

Neither. My wife has a boyfriend and so long as she doesn't get pregnant, I'm fine with me

[Eiram5]

Both are bad physically, but emotional pain is worse because it's not just physical.

[browsingthroughthe]

Both lol 🤣
Especially both
💔

[Kelly6]

@pretendingtobesweet I guess emotional

[blackeagle007]

Definitely both. No difference I feel

[ThisSiteSux]

Lol. If you don't cheat, you don't love the game

[EmmaMary]

Both.

[queenofcardio]

Both

[Paige2006]

Both

[dudeinohio]

Equally damaging

[browsingthroughthe]

I'd say so as well man

[Anonymous]

Both.

[mar301]

both of them

[jahaims]

Both are betrayal

[wkhan_87]

Both..