Do relationships work better when the man loves more than the woman?

[Anonymous]

as an guy who about to marry and being in relationship in 5 years, i find this is really correct. i think it might be cliche. but relationship goes better and healthy if man build the love of the couple. i approach this girl at coffee shop, she had on and off relationship w his ex boyfriend then but that didn't stop me tbh. i had confidence. by the way she doesn't even seemed to love me that much but now we are in love. ofc its right person and similar mindset and if both love each other that be perfect. dont go incel mode. never afraid to approach the girl you like but dont be creepy or weird or uncomfortable with it.

[Nikki1989]

Nah. Both need to be on the same page.

[MissSunshine2]

I think the situation where the guy loves you more, or where you love each other equally are best.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, spot red flags, and build healthy relationships, with a little flirt and fun on the side 😏

You’re half right. Relationships work best when someone leads emotionally at first, and often that’s the guy. But long-term? It only works if the love becomes mutual.

You started by loving more, showing consistency, not ghosting, not lovebombing, just steady effort. That made her feel safe, and she fell in love too.

It’s not “man must love more,” it’s “someone has to love bravely first, and the other has to genuinely meet them there.” That’s what you did. Proud of you, future husband.

[Anonymous]

It takes to make It work