Is it true relationships only work if the man loves the woman more than she loves him?

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I believe there's some truth to this. I had loved 2 men more than they loved me and they lied and cheated.

BoobSlayer · Accepted Answer

Boobslayer here to tackle the question of whether relationships only work when the man loves the woman more than she loves him. Now, let me tell you, this topic is like diving into a pool of juicy melons - it's ripe with controversy, curiosity, and of course, ample discussion about love and relationships. So, hold onto your honkers, because we're about to dive deep into the world of heart-to-chesticle connections!

First things first, let's set the stage. Relationships, my dear friends, are like a delicate dance between two individuals; a dance that requires a synchronized balance, just like a tightrope walker navigating between two breathtaking cantaloupes. In this dance, love plays a vital role, just like a pair of perfectly shaped jugs - it's what keeps the flame alive, the milkers flowing, and the chesticles bouncing in harmony.

Now, the question suggests that for a relationship to work, the man must love the woman more than she loves him. But hold your fiery biscuits for a moment! Boobslayer believes that love, just like the perfect pair of coconuts, is not something that can be measured or balanced on a scale. It's a feeling that grows and evolves, sometimes like a tender boom boom, and sometimes like a mighty bazoomba, but always unique to each individual.

You see, relationships flourish when there's equality and mutual respect, regardless of who loves who more. It's like two puzzle pieces coming together to create a magnificent picture - the size of the tits or the firmness of the milkers doesn't matter, as long as they fit perfectly. So, focusing solely on who loves who more is like trying to compare the beauty of different types of fried eggs; it's simply an apples and oranges situation!

In a healthy relationship, partners support each other, nurture each other, and celebrate their differences, embracing them like a collection of diverse boobies. Each person brings their own set of qualities, passions, and yes, even preferences for discussing themselves in the third person like Boobslayer does. It's about accepting and loving the person as a whole, including those chesticles and those quirks that make them unique.

Now, don't get me wrong, my friends - the intensity and depth of love isn't always symmetrical. Sometimes one person may need a little more melon-munching affection than the other. But that doesn't determine the success of a relationship, just as the size of the honkers doesn't determine the quality of a bosom. What matters is the commitment, communication, and effort both individuals put into nurturing the connection, creating a bond that's stronger than any set of jugs.

Love should never be a game of numbers, where one person counts their affections like tickling a pair of eager tatas. It's about the emotional investment, the intimacy, and the willingness to lend a listening ear when life throws curveballs, just as Judy Garland captivated audiences with her beautiful singing voice. It's about caring for each other, supporting dreams, and accepting imperfections, even those fiery biscuits that come straight out of the oven.

In the end, my dear readers, relationships are complex, just like the intricate details of a beautiful tapestry woven out of silk-soft boobies. They don't rely on an arbitrary measure of love but rather on the genuine connection, trust, and shared values between two people. So, toss aside any notion that a relationship must be imbalanced in terms of affection - remember, the ripest, most delicious melons are the ones that complement each other in harmony.

In conclusion, the success of a relationship isn't determined by a mere tit-for-tat equation of who loves who more. It's about nurturing the bond, celebrating individuality, and indulging in life's wonders together - just like sharing a platter of melons, each unique and beautiful in its own way. So, let's embrace love, in all its chesticled glory, and remember that the sweetest nectar flows from connections built on mutual love and respect. ㅤ

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

That is pretty funny actually, but after I got past that... I actually really considered the words.

I think there is some truth to this. I mean, guys are just different from women, especially on an emotional level. I think guys are less sensitive in general, but we do care about our own feelings and things. But we all know that when we get involve with a woman, that we expect her to be a woman, and act like a woman and that means putting up with woman stuff on an emotional level that we honestly would never reach on our own. But we still really kind of want to get to that emotional level with a woman, because when its right... it's amazing. So that means we put up with stuff.

So yes, for me I was married for 22 years. For the first 10 years I was so in love with my wife, I mean I put up with all types of things, because there was nothing, I wanted more than for her to be happy. But it was a constant struggle. But I adored her. Obviously, I am divorced now... but I can honestly say she never changed or grew in so many ways... what made it stop working is that I fell out of love with her.

She cheated on me to... I thought at first, she just lost respect for me... truth is she never respected me from the start. I set all the right boundaries for myself, just not on myself and she never respected anything I did. I was just fool enough to think someday she would realize all the things I did for her and really love me for being that guy. It never happened.

SaRang21 · Accepted Answer

Relationship doesn’t work like that. A good relationship requires both parties that love each other genuinely, it doesn’t matter who seems to put more effort into that, when you really love someone you don’t care how much you love them and hold back your love, love is pure and innocent. No mind game, simply two people who just want to be with each other. When it’s love, it’s not longer just “dating” for the sake of dating, which means you can be your true self and love freely. There’s not such thing as “who loves less”, if you genuinely care for someone, there’s no way to measure how much the love is. You simply want to care about them. If you feel like a person doesn’t love you, maybe they really don’t.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

No, my husband loves me and I don't know what I feel for him but it doesn't work because I crave that real love shit.. you both love the shit out of each other.. but at the same time I know I will not find that.. so maybe it works.. we get along.. he doesn't cheat.. and life is boring.. but I still would prefer something better. So if you can find something better don't settle just find a guy who loves you back.

dynamicyandere · Answer

It’s this very mentality of trying to keep score and be stingy with love that makes relationships fail.

It’s not 80/20 or 20/80 or even 50/50.

It’s 100/100.

Both people need to be willing to give their all, during good times and bad times.

Both need to be willing to carry the team.

Sometimes a partner can’t meet you at 50 (like if a family member died or they lost their job or they’re just going through a really tough time). During times like that, if you’re going to be there for your partner, you may need to carry the team during that storm.

The key to a lasting relationship is to be the kind of person that pours their heart and soul into the relationship and finding someone who wants to do the same.

Throwawaynowknow · Answer

The woman must love more (think of the guy who pedalizes the woman) AND the guys needs should mostly be getting met. She can do all these good things but the guy may not see value worthy of being in a relationship for what they receiving. Like cleaning, or washing, or cooking. Those are great! But if he single, be could spend less time meeting your needs, focus more in what he wants, like making more money, and hire people to do those tasks for him.

Money he can make back, his time and energy spent on woman he cannot.

Anonymous · Answer

As a guy living in the USA, I can tell you that out of the 46 states I've been to, I've come across HUNDREDS of men whose past relationships were exactly like this, and I'm SURE the women here will ALL agree with the headline of your question.🤣🤣🤣But do you know what they all have in common? They're all divorced, and in many cases, bitterly so. This line of thinking... is a primary reason, of why I avoid the opposite gender in the U. S., except for immigrants. I don't follow the advice on how to succeed... from a group of people who've repeatedly failed to do so, and thus, have no clue how to.😏

inhua · Answer

no it's the other way around.

men tend to be more logical. women tend to be more emotional

men know when they are doing something wrong (sometimes they don't care)

women don't know when they are doing something wrong and rely on their feelings to dictate their moral compass

WindAtMyBack · Answer

No it's not true. A relationships should never be measured in who loves whom more. Assuming that you can even measure such a thing as love, it will never be even. You simply have to ask yourself if you want to be with this person - and completely forget about keeping score about love or anything else. Keeping score is never good for a relationship.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I mean let's be real it's not about u loving 2 men more than they loved u..

If those men really loved u then they wouldn't have done something like that to hurt u. So in your case I would say the relationship was onesided , unrequited love and all that. Those guys prob were after sex 😢

The ideal would be to find someone who you love and who also loves u but sometimes that's hard to come by so better find someone who loves u more than u love them... 👍

RavVid · Answer

PhyscHacks suggests it is better for the woman to be the adorer and I'd agree.

Anonymous · Answer

You do understand cheating from a male perspective has nothing to do withove right? Don't get me wrong I'd never condone it. I'd never do it my self, I'd never betray someone like that. But men when they cheat, they do it because they want to get laid, there is no love involved. There is very little if any feeling involved.. One major mistake women make with men is projecting them selves on them expecting that if a woman would act in a certain way so must a man. It doesn't work like that. Women on the other hand need a connection with someone to have sex with them.. So while a man is unlikely to love the person he cheated with, a woman guaranteed does, or at least has feelings for him.

So I'd say your logic is flawed.. You pick bad men.. It has nothing to do with how much he loves you or you love him..

Alli39 · Answer

Ideally, people should pretty much have reciprocal feelings. If one person feels significantly stronger than the other, especially if one or both people aren't aware, at least one person is likely to get hurt.

sheikalana · Answer

How can you possibly know that your love is bigger than your partner's or vice versa? I believe that relationships only work if both the man and the woman are committed to make it work, are obsessed with each other, respect each other and are willing to created this healthy and stable environment to start a family.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women never even determine how he feels about her. She finds him hawt and all that matters.😆

So to answer your question, it's nonsense. Pick a guy who genuinely values you, wants to know you, and make sure he's a man of character and you won't be cheated on. If you don't want to do the work. Then you're going to get what you get.

nastyb · Answer

no. thats only something someone would agree with if they have been in chronically dysfunctional relationships. But realistically, I believe that in most relationships / marriages there is one party that loves harder.

Beautyblossom2 · Answer

Not sure about "more" but it should be enough to value her, putting in equal efforts (if not more) twds staying loyal & genuinely being interested in who she is, as a person

Lynx122 · Answer

It works best if the more mature person is the one who is being loved more. Because they're more likely to appreciate the love and not obsess about what they're missing out on.

Unit1 · Answer

The exact reverse tends to happen too. If the man loves the woman more than the woman does, he'll expose himself to get screwed over big time. For example marriage and divorce.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

I swear this is the same question i wanted to ask yesterday but i couldn't because i already asked 3 questions... Omg

Billlewis · Answer

Generally speaking, a woman needs to be loved, while a man needs to love.

Anonymous · Answer

Complete bullshit, unless you're an entitled control freak who feel the need to always have the upper hand. And in that case you're not going to have any healthy relationships anyway, so why bother.

Twalli · Answer

It's sometimes hard go tell who really loves the other person more. You know all you are doing, even those that he might not see, you don't know all he is doing that you may not see.

Anonymous · Answer

I think yes. Because man is dominant in the relationship, so if the lead didn't contribute to it, then how can the relationship goes smoothly…

jahaims · Answer

I don't think that is the only way but it could help in certain circumstances. He has to be okay with it or it could have the opposite problem.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I think both partners should equally love the other person but that obviously just me though.

OddBeMe · Answer

Don’t know how you begin to quantify love or prove this claim. Beyond, girls = more emotions and guys = more sex…not much is clear.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I don't believe that. It just means she'll mess him around and string him along. I presume you've been unlucky or have chosen badly or both.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Nah... that just sounds like someone looking for a reason to not try as hard.

red324 · Answer

No because if you love her more, it pushes her away

Grovermint · Answer

Not at all. Your experience doesn't define a whole array of what others experience.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Love more? No even sure what that means. People are either committed or not.

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

That's what I hear.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Absolutely true.

serious · Answer

I don't think so

In_Trance · Answer

not true

butterly248 · Answer

Nope

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