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Search Results: no spark at a date
Is it possible to bring back the spark in relationship?
We’ve been together for 3,5 years (living together for almost 3yrs). I’m 23, he is 25. in the past year I feel like we’re stuck. Sometimes I find myself thinking that maybe it’s all over because we’re more like...
Anonymous
(25-29) Feeling TERRIBLE. I love him but I don’t want a relationship with him?
I’ve been dating this guy for one year and he was my everything. My world revolved around him. I would wake up everyday feeling like the luckiest girl in the world because he was mine. I would obsessively stare at our...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does playing the long game get such a bad connotation?
What I’ve learned is that the way we try to date each other is different every single time, what worked dating one woman won’t necessarily work with the next. This woman I saw two years ago, it took us almost six months...
Anonymous
(36-45) What Does It Mean When A Man Says He did not Feel A Spark? How Do you Build Chemistry?
On April 15th, I met this man via hinge; he is 33, and I'm 25; we began chatting every day. On April 18th, he asked me out, so we had coffee for about 30 minutes, and then he asked me to have dinner with him, to which...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I tell if he likes me?
So I've been friends with this guy for a year now. We met in a class last spring and stayed in contact throughout the summer and into fall. We would sit and talk for a few hours between class every Tuesday and...
demurerose
Xper 3 Age: 24 Should I reconnect with a guy I dated briefly? just friendly terms?
I’ve been debating this for a while. We dated briefly two months before the pandemic started and then we lost touch after I got sick with cancer 6 months after. This was September 2020 by then. I haven’t spoken to him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does he initiate conversation but not ask me out?
TL;DR Why would a guy continue to message me first after expressing no interest in seeing me again after 2 dates? (I have not initiated any of the contact.) So I met this guy on Bumble. We chatted on the app for 2-3...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why can’t women understand that men need sex on the first date?
You want men to plan the date and pay for everything but give nothing in return. Stop wasting mens time and money. We’re not asking for much. No guy wants to waste his time and money only to be shot down for a second...
CantGetItUp
Xper 5 Age: 30 I can not figure out what is wrong with me?
This may sound a little dramatic, but honestly this has been weighing on my mind so much and I am completely unable to concentrate on my work. I do not know who else to go to, so please bear with me. This might be a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can femcels (female Incels, women who cannot get sex or a relationship) really exist?
Once again, I ask this question. Do femcels really exist? Are there some biological women who, no matter what, cannot get a guy to date them or sleep with them? I won't make this a poll, because I really want people...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 I ghosted a guy. Is a day later too late to respond?
we went on a first date. i didn’t feel a spark and don’t want to see him again. on the date we talked about me coming to his house party next weekend. for some reason, i lied on the date. i’m trying to figure out why? i...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week, it was sudden, she said she isn't ready for dating or a relationship, I want her back what do I do?
I met this lovely lady a month and a half ago and we immediately hit it off, sparks and chemistry and it felt like we'd known each other for years. our first date was over 5 hours long, and everytime after that when we...
Anonymous
(36-45) What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)
So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Am I Wrong For Wanting To Stay Single For A While Instead Of Sleeping Around or Dating?
My ex broke up with me the end of last week as he wanted to be single. Our break up was good and I walked away with really no questions as he talked me through it all. Although I love being in a relationship, I have...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I not let my feelings get in the way, and just be his friend? Also, tell me your love stories?
Okay, let's lay it all out and leave no way questions. I'm Christian, please respect that. I'm 20, the guy is 18. And I am crazy in love. I like this guy friend from my friend group. I see him multiple times a week...
Anonymous
(18-24) If your 1st date had "no spark," do you go on a 2nd date?
What's your experience with getting along, conversation flows, you find them attractive but no spark. Do you see them again?
Katebfun
Yoda Age: 40 If there'sno spark on a 1st date do you have a 2nd date?
I recently went on a 1st date with a younger guy. The date was great, we had a ton to tall about he wined, dined and paid for the movie. He is attractive, but I was slightly concerned he lost hez virginity at 24 and has...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this a good response or no?
So I added this girl on Instagram. She's local, cute and I find her attractive. She added me back, I finally broke the ice and replied to one of her stories. To be detailed, she posted a story of fireworks for 4th of...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does he really love me?
When we started to date he was married but I didn't know... he was a playboy but told me everything about his past and what he thinks on other stuff everything... his marriage was arranged and he can't connect with his...
Anonymous
(30-35) Updated his tinder profile TWICE after great first date?
I went on an amazing date. First guy I've been on a first date with and felt the sparks and attraction etc. I have been screwed over a lot so liking someone scares me. My last relationship graced me with cheating and he...
Anonymous
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