Well, I can understand but you have to make a choice. You either want to be with him or you should cease all contact and move on completely.
It is tough choice, given what you are saying but if you are really not enjoying the life with him despite being being good then ceasing all contact with him would make most sense.
You said it yourself, you started enjoying life without him, the biggest problem I could see here is that you are an outright social extrovert who needs people, friends, company and you need to go out whereas he is the polar opposite in this case. He seems like a indoor and homie type of guy who is just content playing video games, watching TV etc etc.
This I suppose you were not happy with yourself but still other things were good so it was good for your for a while. You both being polar opposites in this case does not do any good.
Now you must make a decision to either get back with him or you want to completely cease all contact with him. However, if you continue talking to him, you continue meeting and spending time with him will not do you any good. It will confuse you further and you will never be able to actually move on.
Hence take a call right away and live up to that decision. It is your life and it is your choice.
Good luck
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Please leave this poor man alone. Go have your happy life and laugh with your girlfriends and fuck other guys if you want. But leave him alone. If you break up with a man then break up with him. Don’t string him along and give him false hope. What the hell is wrong with you?
Infatuated is the correct word, not love. It sounds like he was a red flag from the beginning. Move on and do better next time.
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